When I would hear people say they need to 'find themselves' I thought they were off thier rocker!...however, I have come to realize I may have to do that!
I went from being a daughter, sister....and such, to being a girlfriend then wife...as a girlfriend we spent every day together and talked on the phone...I was 14...I went from giving in to younger siblings to giving in to a partner...I don't know what I like!
A piece of me feels selfish for thinking it has to be about me...but maybe it'll be good...once I figure out where to start!
You have heard to 'never assume...because...it makes an'...you know the rest.
So why do people still do it?
I wasn't invited to go fishing because it seemed I didn't enjoy myself...I enjoy the sittin in the sun...I'll bring my sketch books or a book to read...why is that not good enough...?
Why assume I am feeling a certain way about something...if I have a problem, you WILL know it!!
I am a communicator...I always have been....pretty sure I always will be...I have a great communicative relationship with my mom...and with my children. I talk to my mom everyday...my kids who are in highschool still call me at work after school...I thought this was everyone's 'normal'.
Ok, I have never blogged...but lately I've just had many things going through my mind, just like many people I suppose...I'm not sure who reads these, if it's for the reader, for the writer or both...but here goes...