Personal Identity and Conflict

In this blog entry, I introduce the notion that one's personal identity is inherent self-conflicted, with promises on how to resolve this self-confliction in a later post.

Something positive to focus on- Lets help Alex find a mate

 I need help so its a good opportunity for a positive disscussion.

 

I want to meet guys interested in a long term relationship, possibly leading to marriage.

I know this seems curious that I am asking for help, but I face several barriers I have to overcome to do so.

 

First I am just learning how to socialise after discovering how being a person with a form of high functioning autism is percived by others.

Be thankful, this is my pain...I am without. There is no God for me.

I feel so without. I cannot function.  I regularly am in crisis.

- I was raised since a toddler in a house full of explicit pornography and abuse, for which I am in clinical crisis therapy presently.  I have been instructed by my therapist to break off communications with my family.

- I was harmed by a convicted pedophile school teacher who was fired but became an advocate of the LGBT community.  I cannot understand why the LGBT lifestyle is accepted when it harbours pedophiles.

So . . . . .Wanna talk about it?

Hi All,

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I am going to withdraw from this forum, because I think it is evil. There is nothing nice about this forum. It is either to ridicule someone, or to further hatred against the fundies.

The Deception Of Appearances

Hi All,

Over in the Social Forum under Paradox3's thread about the reverend Vosper's new book Riznatts wrote:

Lost opportunity

Hi All,

Jennybeam, has lept out of the shadows and hit the cafe running.

I see that she is exercising her franchise and demonstrating fundamentalist tolerance by allowing us to read from her thread but demanding we not post to it unless we are Fundamentalists or Moral Absolutists.

I was kind of disappointed to see all the non fundy none moral absolutists hopping on the band wagon as I was wondering if there really was such a huge contingent of fundamentalist moral absolutists lurking in the shadows.

Counting the Cost of Community

Hi All,

Luke in the 27th verse of the 14th chapter of his gospel records Jesus as saying. "anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple."

Recognizing that participation in the WonderCafe is not limited to those who are attempting to be disciples of Christ I still wonder how the above verse might apply to our virtual community.

In the context of the passage Jesus is commenting upon readiness and preparedness in undertaking certain ventures be they building towers or defending against approaching armies.

A Sockpuppet behind every tree.

Hi All,

Twice in the last little while there has been an attempt to reveal sockpuppetry.

I understand why.

It has burned us as a community and some of us are new to the whole idea that people would feel the need to create another layer of hiddenness to their identity.

At any rate what was sown is being reaped.

Unfortunately they aren't the only ones reaping. We are doing a fair bit of it ourselves.

Seeds of suspicion have been sown how do we avoid the harvest such seeds will yield?

It Takes Two

Hi All,

About time for me to be Dad again.

We can argue about who starts it. We can fight about who stops it.

It takes two to participate in it.

It takes at least two to perpetuate it.

One mature one can stop it.

We can debate, pro or con, whether or not response is justified or warranted or necessary.

That only continues it.

Want to stop it in its tracks.

Give them all the rope they need to hang themselves.

Admin plowed the field and we scattered

Hi All.

Some five months ago ground was broken here and we were invited to roll up our sleeves and much around a bit.

Our thoughts and ideas were to be the seed sown with the hopes that much good fruit would spring forth.

Some seed fell onto hard packed earth where it was quickly gobbled up by the beasts that crawl and the birds that fly. If some of that seed was yours what would you want to reclaim of it?

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