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So ladies … is Leonard Cohen “fatherly”?

Over on religion the subject of Leonard Cohen came up as a little sidebar to one of the threads.  Someone suggested that Leonard Cohen was "fatherly".  I said that only he was not "fatherly" but "dangerous".   Just to get things going here is what I wrote:
 
Yeah Mendalla, I know what you mean.   I was thinking about his novel Beautiful Losers or some of his earlier records and poetry.  Admittedly now he has a more mellow (and I suppose more marketable) demeanour and image but I think he's pretty well the same old Leonard.  He was heavily influenced by Irving  Layton who was an angry and sex obsessed Canadian poet if there ever was one and in the 60's both of them were considered pretty iconoclastic and not very nice.  But that's when it was still possible to "talk dirty".  The best test though is to ask the women.  They always loved him and still do.  They are always drawn to the "bad boys". 
 
In the sixties and seventies there was a fairly large contingent (especially among the parents of the time), I think, who would have opined that as skilled as he was, he was really only interested in writing poetry because it was a great way to get introduced to free thinking college girls (O God! How good they looked in their baggy beatnik sweaters, their pointy bras and their beehive hairdos!) who chain smoked, swore like troopers  and wanted to get laid by a poet.  He was not the kind of boy parents hoped their daughter would meet at college.
 
So ladies … is Leonard Cohen “fatherly”?
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"Butterflies and laundry

"Butterflies and laundry flutter

My love -- her hair's as blonde as butter."

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"With Annie gone,

Whose eyes to compare with the morning sun?

(Not that I did compare, but I do compare -- now that she's gone).

 

 

Really, how could a young woman resist?

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He surely has been gifted

He surely has been gifted with a golden voice that would make any women week in the knees.

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I would LOVE to have him over

I would LOVE to have him over for supper he seems like such an amazing conversationalist.

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"Like a bird on the wire Like

"Like a bird on the wire

Like a drunk in a midnight choir

I have tried in my way to be free."

Fatherly? You gotta be kidding. I'd have him over for supper.........

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Sexy? Yes.  Fatherly?  No

Sexy? Yes.  Fatherly?  No way.  Not to say that he would be a bad father or anything, he seems like a nice enough guy.  I'm just talking about the image I get from his music and writing.  I mean, I just can't see how anyone who who would write a scene about an elaborate sex toy coming to life could be seen as 'fatherly'.

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I am well aware that Leonard

I am well aware that Leonard is anything but fatherly.  I am equally well aware of his opinion of women and what position they should assume buuuut....

 

I love the man.  He is a poet.  What more can be said....

 

 

 

its the hat baby!

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I don't see Leonard as

I don't see Leonard as fatherly or sexy....but love his poetry and music. 

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Definately not fatherly, and

Definately not fatherly, and not sexy at his age either. He's like a dirty old man now! But I do like his songs and writting.  It is good to know though that one can be one's same old self when one gets to his age, educational. I actually have a great respect for him, though I may skip his dirtier lines!

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sexy, hot ,dangerously

sexy, hot ,dangerously intelligent and, as a Toronto store on the avant garde Queen Street West is named : so hip it hurts. 

 

his eloquence alone is enough to woo me.

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pilgrim, i might ask him to 

pilgrim, i might ask him to  stay for breakfast ;)

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qwerty, sans pointy bra  and

qwerty, sans pointy bra  and a mass of curly red hair instead  of the  'hive, i was an awful lot like that - yet alternately completely preppy for work  and special occasions...i am gonna miss my Docs...  but i still  have  some wit left - don'tcha think ? ;)

 

Our Lady Of Solitude lyrics

All summer long she touched me
She gathered in my soul
From many a thorn, from many thickets
Her fingers, like a weaver's
Quick and cool
And the light came from her body
And the night went through her grace
All summer long she touched me
And I knew her, I knew her
Face to face

And her dress was blue and silver
And her words were few and small
She is the vessel of the whole wide world
Mistress, oh mistress, of us all

Dearly dead; Queen of Solitude
I thank you with my heart
for keeping me so close to thee
while so many, oh so many, stood apart

And the light came from her body
And the night went through her grace
All summer long she touched me
I knew her, I knew her
Face to face


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redhead wrote: pilgrim, i

redhead wrote:

pilgrim, i might ask him to  stay for breakfast ;)

In that case, I hope the hospital food improves. 

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lmao, pp!!!!

lmao, pp!!!!

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For all of Cohen's strut

For all of Cohen's strut there is a smigdeon of humility about him.  I think when I fell in love with him was when at the Grammy's he said, and I'm paraphrasing, "You gotta love a country that gives an award for Best Vocals to a man who can't sing"

 

And watch the video above, there is a twinkle in those eyes that telegraphs, I'm having fun and at the end, I swear!, there is a look of gratitude.  I want that twinkle when I'm 75.

 

A toast to Leonard, and all of us, may we always dance on the polka dots!

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I love him and now that he is

I love him and now that he is older he is just one of those lucky guys who gets sexier.  Paul Newman was the same, older and sexier.

 

Sexy voice, sexy manner, self effacing, great!

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OMG the voice! I have a thing

OMG the voice! I have a thing for deep gravelly voices. Combine that with the lyrics and you have awesomness. Yes, he is gettting into "dirty old man" territory, but he doesn't seem to act like one, so I forgive him for aging, as we must all do in any case.

 

I've never thought of the adjective "fatherly" to describe him, though. I guess because that adjective seems to conjure up images of my own father, who is not like Leonard at all.

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"Song to Bernadette" 'nuff

"Song to Bernadette"

'nuff said.

I think it's the tension between his deeply-felt and poetic spirituality and the side of him that hints at his being the "roue" (that word can't be used with much sincerity very often) that's attractive.  He is able to convey the sacred and profane existing amicably in one person.

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Here is a you tube clip of

Here is a you tube clip of his recent concert in London.  The CD is wonderful for those Cohen fans.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ttv5dyvtF4o&feature=fvst

 

I love this song and he sings it the best.

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