Does anyone here have any special relationships with places, and the people such places attract by association?
Churches, family farms, camps, community gathering places, coffee shops, book stores, friend's houses, et cetera...?
I just found out (after having being able to get work off for the entire summer) that I will most likely not be able to go to camp this summer and it was...devestating to say the least...
It made me realize that sometimes we have such a strong connection for various reasons to places that we treat them and remember then as old friends, not as places anymore, who else has had this experience?
As-salaamu alaikum
-Omni
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footprints165
I have a love for Montreal
Posted on: 04/28/2010 13:38
I have a love for Montreal I can't explain. I was born there, but we moved not too long after. Then, for my whole childhood we went back every summer as a family to go to LaRonde - the MTL version of Wonderland (which I've never been, funny enough). If i need a weekend getaway on a budget, I bus to Montreal. My fiance takes me every other year for my birthday, just to be there. I have a special love and pride for Montreal, and when I think about it, I don't think of it as a place, but as you said, I think of it as an old friend I can't wait to visit again.
It's odd how some places affect us that way.
Beloved
Greetings! As footprints
Posted on: 04/28/2010 14:10
Greetings!
As footprints shares feelings about Montreal is how I feel about London, England. I've been there once and for some reason it has a draw for me.
The village where my granny lived also has a draw on me. She is no longer there, hasn't been for years. The area around is where all her family farmed. Her house is gone. But the church and church yard is still there. When I travel there now I feel both a sorrowful/mournful feeling of what no longer is and an elated feeling of being able to be there once again. I think for me it draws me back to where I felt in childhood - carefree, everything was easy, fun, lots of people, love - to visit was a vacation, something to look forward to every summer.
I had a friend whose house I loved to visit - reality, probably the friend made it that way. Over the years our lives and situations have changed and so it is no longer the same - visits and the friendship have drifted, but I remember how I felt those many years ago.
There was a summer resort in my area that I spent a lot of time at as a child. It is no longer there, except for the lake, some grass, and playground area (which are not well kept up) - the buildings, most grassy areas, and special attractions are all gone. I still like to go and walk through and remember the sights, sounds, and smells of days gone by.
Hope, peace, joy, love . . .
Beloved
The_Omnissiah wrote: I just
Posted on: 04/28/2010 13:48
I just found out (after having being able to get work off for the entire summer) that I will most likely not be able to go to camp this summer and it was...devestating to say the least...
How very disappointing for you Omni
. . . what will you do with your summer now?
Birthstone
the cottage...mmmmm.... birch
Posted on: 04/28/2010 13:50
the cottage...mmmmm.... birch leaves and poplar twittering in the soft breeze, filtering the summer sunlight into patterns against the cottage walls. windchimes. sparkling waters. rocks and moss and chipmunks and quiet, except for happy laughter and glasses clinking and sighs from comfy drowsy folks resting in the shade. Muskoka is my special spot.
Birthstone
the cottage...mmmmm.... birch
Posted on: 04/28/2010 13:50
the cottage...mmmmm.... birch leaves and poplar twittering in the soft breeze, filtering the summer sunlight into patterns against the cottage walls. windchimes. sparkling waters. rocks and moss and chipmunks and quiet, except for happy laughter and glasses clinking and sighs from comfy drowsy folks resting in the shade. Muskoka is my special spot.
Beloved
Must be very special,
Posted on: 04/28/2010 13:55
Must be very special, birthstone for you to say it twice
. I also love being at the cottage for all the reasons you mentioned as well as campfires, swimming, and boating.
crazyheart
Banff - the mountains and the
Posted on: 04/28/2010 14:02
Banff - the mountains and the first years of my marriage but I now go back and feel sad at what the Govenment has turned the park into.
ninjafaery
Beloved -- you evoked so well
Posted on: 04/28/2010 14:17
Beloved -- you evoked so well that sad nostalgia for what has gone. It's the same for me, remembering summers long ago in Port Dover Ontario, where we spent quite a few summer holidays. On the surface, some things are still there, but it's not the same. It seems all the places from my childhood which were so humble, are now "gentrified" and private.
Maybe we see the past through sentimental, rose-coloured glasses.......
MistsOfSpring
FOr me, it's the landscape of
Posted on: 04/28/2010 14:56
FOr me, it's the landscape of Northern Ontario. As soon as I get back on to the Canadian Shield and see the rock outcrops along the highway, I feel like I"m coming home. I love the trees, lakes, rocks and rivers...I don't know when I will ever be able to live there again, but I look forward to that day a lot.
SG
I have a relationship with
Posted on: 04/28/2010 15:26
I have a relationship with tons of places for tons of reasons. My energy becomes saturated with the tone of the place like a steeping tea bag.
I try to show up in the first minutes anywhere in a sacred manner because I am open to embrace without fear the knowledge of myself the place invites. When I am loud and boisterous (as I usually am later) I can be unconscious to that.
It struck me that a few already mentioned basically "home" for us. We found a sacred landscape, a humble setting and a humble place, and made it home - just north of the Muskokas. We chose a bit north and a good ways off Hwy. 11 because as a place becomes known for its vibe, its feel, its memories, its sacredness... people flock there. People who may not know sacred or keep sacred.
As we drive along the shield's outcrop as they cut the new path for Hwy. 11 my wife squirms and says "I can hear the rocks screaming" and I hear it too. Once they have been cut long enough, nobody hears... sometimes it is just nobody is listening....
(((Omnissiah))) I get what losing camp can mean.... I get connection to place and people in places.....
jesouhaite777
I will most likely not be
Posted on: 04/28/2010 15:53
I will most likely not be able to go to camp this summer and it was...devestating to say the least...
I guess you're gonna miss the bugs and the mud soaked grounds
Camping = Another way of saying "none of my friends have cottages"
Kinst
I have a special fondness and
Posted on: 04/28/2010 16:50
I have a special fondness and nostalgia for Toronto. It brings up a lot of people memories. It can be like a big escape, take the subway somewhere and end up surrounded by people, go shopping or get coffee, meet up with friends and have fun. I really like the feeling of getting lost. It reminds me of certain friends, spending time with my mom, escaping stress and school and parting with lots of money for caffeinated drinks.
I feel pretty fond of London, England too. Partly it reminds me of my family there.
Pilgrims Progress
I'm a pure Celt when it comes
Posted on: 04/28/2010 17:07
I'm a pure Celt when it comes to blood - so it doesn't surprise me that I have always had a special spiritual relationship with place. ("thin places").
I cannot return to a home from my childhood without feeling that special familiar feeling.
I just stand there - and the "feeling" comes over me in waves.
There is a beautiful natural area that is a favourite cruising ground for yachties from all over the world just north of here.
At least twice a year John and I would set sail out into the ocean in our little yacht and meet up with friends there. We had our favourite mooring - that looked over the bush. I loved to get up early and watch the way the sun made dappled patterns on the shoreline rocks. Then the hatch would open and John would say, "I've put the kettle on"................
I was up there earlier in the year on our friend's yacht - and it was a reminder that grief is never really over.
gecko46
Interesting thread. My
Posted on: 04/28/2010 17:15
Interesting thread. My favourite and very special place is an island community off the south coast of Labrador. I have been spending time there as a visitor and volunteer since 2002.
I fell in love with the place and the people immediately. It is a small rocky island - about a mile long and half a mile wide, and a sacred place for me. It is the place where I find myself in the peace and solitude and remoteness. The people are wonderfully honest, warm and welcoming.
There are no motorized vehicles...we walk everywhere and living is a little on the rough side, but the simplicity is good.
From anywhere on the island the views of the north Atlantic are stunningly beautiful - the ocean calm and inviting one day, and in turmoil another, with giant waves crashing the shore.
We experience the many moods of weather, from brilliant sunshine to mysterious fog.
Wildlife abounds - seabirds, dolphins and several species of large whales are often seen from island vantage points, and early in the season we witness majestic icebergs floating by.