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Does God Have a Plan for Your Life?

Does God have a plan for your life?

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If, as I believe, God

If, as I believe, God mutliplied, diversified, and humanified ITself through the act of creation, and thereby godlified us, then IT would want us to become aware of our innate godliness and think and act in a godly manner.

 

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hope not - I'd hate to think

hope not - I'd hate to think that some of the crap that has happened to my family, or worse, the sad things that happen to other people are 'part of the plan'.  I'd rather think that the Spirit helps me & others stick together and get through stuff.

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I think God has a general

I think God has a general plan.

 

I don't think God micromanages 6 billion people.

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I agree with Witch. There is

I agree with Witch. There is that pesky thing called free will that seems to sometimes get in the way of things.

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I actually p[refer to say

I actually p[refer to say that God has a hope for my life

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GordW wrote: I actually

GordW wrote:

I actually p[refer to say that God has a hope for my life

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AMEN to GordW

AMEN to GordW

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I can say to that too.

I can say to that too.

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Yes, God has a plan for my

Yes, God has a plan for my life.  Is it a day-to-day plan?  Probably not - I don't know.  The real point for me is that I have been given the choice to follow God's plan or not and that I must be in relationship with God to hearken to it in the myriad ways she/he communicates it to me.

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No God doesn't have a plan

No God doesn't have a plan for any life. If you believe that He does then you need to explain why some people have such horrible lives.

Instead - each of us has created a plan for our individual life. That plan was formed before we are born and is part of the complete path, through many lives, back to a full relationship with God.

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Hi iWonder,   Yes I believe

Hi iWonder,

 

Yes I believe that God has a plan for my life. Of course I believe that God has a plan for every life.

 

I believe God created this plan before the very beginning of the cosmos. God considered all the possible worlds He could create, and then made the one of his choice.

 

I believe God brings His Sovereign plan about using our own free will. He puts the circumstances into action in which He knows that we will freely choose one thing over another.

 

Peace in Christ.

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So Jae & James .... if God

So Jae & James .... if God has a plan for everyone, and yet people suffer unimaginable crap, how does that work.  (I'm with James on this one, personally, but for the sake of conversation, this was nifty to see 2 sidebyside posts describe the big part of the question)

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I believe God has a plan for

I believe God has a plan for us . (It is for are good and his Glory).--- Jamesk and Birthstone. Some times things that happen make us stronger, it may hurt somtimes .Like about a month ago, I lost a sister 4 day later I lost a littel girl grand child.I don't know why some things happen. But I believe God is in charge , when I look around I see many worst off than me and I thank God for his blessings.

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Airclean, I am sorry for your

Airclean, I am sorry for your loss' May God comfort you.

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Birthstone wrote: So Jae

Birthstone wrote:

So Jae & James .... if God has a plan for everyone, and yet people suffer unimaginable crap, how does that work.  (I'm with James on this one, personally, but for the sake of conversation, this was nifty to see 2 sidebyside posts describe the big part of the question)

 

Hi Birthstone,

 

You've raised a good question there. Why would a just and loving God allow suffering in his plan?

 

I believe he does so to bring about the greater good. Suffering can lead to grown in character, which can lead to a better society for all. Chief on his list of why to allow suffering, however, is I believe God's desire that as many people as possible are given eternal life through Jesus Christ. I hold that God can use suffering in a person's life as a way to bring that person to accept Jesus into their heart.

 

Peace in Christ.

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If God has a plan for my

If God has a plan for my life, He/She hasn't told me what it is yet...I'm waiting....

 

Seriously, I think many things influence our pathways in life - genetics, early environment, family, educational system, friends, life experiences, spiritual values....

 

I don't see God as a the great puppetmaster, toying with human lives, and all created life for that matter.  I like Witch's comment "that God isn't micromanaging 6 billion people".

 

 

 

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gecko46 wrote: I don't see

gecko46 wrote:

I don't see God as a the great puppetmaster, toying with human lives, and all created life for that matter.  I like Witch's comment "that God isn't micromanaging 6 billion people".

 

Agreed that God is not a puppetmaster.

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I'm quite happy that there is

I'm quite happy that there is no reason to believe in such a thing as a cosmic invigilator.  I used to hate invigilators in university exam rooms.  They would walk up and down the aisle, and sometimes stop right over your shoulder.  I understand the need to police against academic dishonesty, but it is unnerving to have someone over your shoulder while you try to work, with so much on the line.  I certainly don't want that in my everyday life, so again, I'm glad I'm free of any god-like presense.

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Strength and courage to you,

Strength and courage to you, airclean...that's a rough patch, to say the least.

 

I'm with Gord W. on this one...

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suffering of an infant who

suffering of an infant who starves to death does not build character.  suffering of a child through abuse does not build character.  suffering of a nation through a flood does not build character.  It simply underscores that some have power and some don't.  It underscores that life is crapshoot and sometimes you're not even the one shooting the dice.  it underscores that shit happens.  Not that God plans it.  Some God that is.

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If there is a "plan" for

If there is a "plan" for everything, including my life, don't think it's the kind of plan that controls what happens. It's more like what Gord said; it's what "God" hopes will happen. Through revelation and other means, "God" may try to reveal that plan to us and guide us in a particular direction but he has no guarantee we will go there. And, yes, like any good plan, it may need tweaking and tinkering from time to time as things evolve. But, as I said at the start of the post, that's assuming there is a "plan" at all. I do not personally see any sign of an overall plan for mine or any other life, but I cannot completely rule out the existence of such a plan either. It could be very subtle or very complex such that I haven't discerned enough of it yet to know it's there.

 

Mendalla

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Birthstone wrote: suffering

Birthstone wrote:

suffering of an infant who starves to death does not build character.  suffering of a child through abuse does not build character.  suffering of a nation through a flood does not build character. 

 

Hi Birthstone,

 

You're making some pretty sweeping generalizations there. I can't agree with you. I believe sometimes suffering does build character. If not in the infant than in the infant's parents or guardians. In any case, I believe God chiefly uses suffering to bring people to accept Jesus. The building of character is quite a secondary thing. I believe that God's chief end is to bring glory to himself, not to us.

 

Peace in Christ.

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God's plan was to give us

God's plan was to give us brains so we could make plans to honour the life we were given.

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If God did have a plan for my

If God did have a plan for my life, I imagine that I've failed miserably, but  God knows who I am, what I've done, what's been done to me and what just plain happened, so we're cool.

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waterfall wrote: God's plan

waterfall wrote:

God's plan is to let us make plans.

 

Hi waterfall,

 

That's a good point. I do agree -- it is part of God's plan to let us make plans. He has given us free will.

 

Peace in Christ.

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For plan I read purpose. I

For plan I read purpose. I have been aware of no plan, for purpose: I still search:

My book will undoubtedly justify my existance a delight enjoyed by millionms...

I sonetimes think I really should start writing page two....

...maybe tomorrow...

 

 

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waterfall wrote: God's plan

waterfall wrote:

God's plan was to give us brains so we could make plans to honour the life we were given.

 

Good point, waterfall!

 

The self-creative Cosmos, a.k.a. God, created in us an organ that is almost as limitlessly self-creative as the power that created it.

 

Now all we got to do is put this organ to good and godly and creative use.

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If there is a plan, I think

If there is a plan, I think it's more of a blue print or map to guide me rather than something absolute. 

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If there is a plan, I think

If there is a plan, I think it's more of a blue print or map to guide me rather than something absolute. 

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I'm withyou on that one

I'm withyou on that one though its possible that like in a corporation he directs and assigns his peeps to implement the grand plan and create individual plans.  But really that doesn't resonate. What does is that we are a giant organism comprised of single celled organisms.  We are seperate but really part of one another. 

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Jae said   " In any case, I

Jae said   " In any case, I believe God chiefly uses suffering to bring people to accept Jesus. The building of character is quite a secondary thing. I believe that God's chief end is to bring glory to himself, not to us."

 

Wow, Jae, your concept of God sounds like a childish narcissist to me. 

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" I have a dream"...   Call

" I have a dream"...

 

Call it a plan, a dream, an idea, a vision, a mission statement; did God have one, I think so.  Are we following it, not to its full potential.

 

 

LB


And when this happens, when we allow freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God's children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual: 

Free at last! Free at last!

Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!
     Martin Luther King 

 

 

 

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I firmly believe that GOD has

I firmly believe that GOD has a plan for my life. I have the free will as to follow it or not. I think a lot of the suffering and such in life comes when we don't follow GOD's plan. Obviously that wouldn't be the case for babies and children, but it's frequently the case as to why things are bad in an adults life. As for the rest, sometimes the plan is very difficult or even painful but I believe GOD has a good result down the road. I also believe that when we are off HIS path, HE will give us a way back on, although it may be challenging. That's very relevant to something a friend of mine is dealing with now.

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Hi crazyheart--Thank you

Hi crazyheart--Thank you

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Hi

Hi iWonder@Cafe,

 

iWonder@Cafe wrote:

Does God have a plan for your life?

 

Well, judging by appearances God might.  All my plans failed to come to fruition just as I planned them.

 

I don't think that God is a puppeteer pulling all strings.  I am not a pre-determinist.

 

I do believe that there is a place that God intends for me to reach and that God will nudge and hint as much as needed to keep me on or get me on track to reaching that destination.

 

Grace and peace to you.

John

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RivermanJae wrote: Birthstone

RivermanJae wrote:

Birthstone wrote:

suffering of an infant who starves to death does not build character.  suffering of a child through abuse does not build character.  suffering of a nation through a flood does not build character. 

 

Hi Birthstone,

 

You're making some pretty sweeping generalizations there. I can't agree with you. I believe sometimes suffering does build character. If not in the infant than in the infant's parents or guardians. In any case, I believe God chiefly uses suffering to bring people to accept Jesus. The building of character is quite a secondary thing. I believe that God's chief end is to bring glory to himself, not to us.

 

Peace in Christ.

I bolded the words above I'm taking issue with.

and so it is acceptable, and reasonable and loving to USE the infant to enlighten the parents?  A child died a few years ago in Nova Scotia, in his crib with only a bottle of soured milk beside him.  He died of malnutrition and neglect after 12+ months.  His parents were apparently not intelligent enough to care for him properly.  No one learned anything except that the child learned pain & agony & not to count on anyone (certainly not God), and the province's agencies learned they screwed up.  

That child learned nothing except pain.  And this is not a rare case.

Broad generalizations of 'learning' something are exactly what I'm arguing against.  Most families find that in their sufferings, they learn something good, but at a point the energy wasted on struggling with crap could have been put to much better use. 

 

The Spirit doesnt' force children to suffer to teach their parents a lesson.  I dont' think that I'm making a generalization.

 

I also think "Glory to God" means nothing if the world beneath is hell for innocents.

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I would love it if God had a

I would love it if God had a specific plan for me.  I am at a crossroads of life and would love some Divine support and direction. However, I do not believe God, like Witch said, micromanages us.  I believe God has hope for Her creation.  For me, this is the only response that makes sense.

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RivermanJae wrote: Birthstone

RivermanJae wrote:

Birthstone wrote:

suffering of an infant who starves to death does not build character.  suffering of a child through abuse does not build character.  suffering of a nation through a flood does not build character. 

 

Hi Birthstone,

 

You're making some pretty sweeping generalizations there. I can't agree with you. I believe sometimes suffering does build character. If not in the infant than in the infant's parents or guardians. In any case, I believe God chiefly uses suffering to bring people to accept Jesus. The building of character is quite a secondary thing. I believe that God's chief end is to bring glory to himself, not to us.

 

Peace in Christ.

 

I also cannot agree with you Jae.  My 11 year old son recently spent months enduring chronic pain we have been trying to manage.  Fortunately I think we have a handle on it now (move to a GJ tube) but I cannot believe for a minute that his months of suffering pain he could not control nor understand accomplished anything constructive.  The pain was simply suffering for him, and quite frankly for me as well as his mother who stood by powerless. 

 

If this is God's idea of teaching me a lesson, be it humility, compassion, patience, strength or whatever, then I cannot look to this God.  That is a cruel being and does not coincide with my image of a loving, compassionate God who wants nothing beyond the best for Her creation.

 

For me, God is not in the suffering but in the journey.  Sometimes that journey includes suffering simply because suffering is part of the human condition. Suffering simply "is" and it just plain sucks and I think God agrees.

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DaisyJane wrote: RivermanJae

DaisyJane wrote:

RivermanJae wrote:

Birthstone wrote:

suffering of an infant who starves to death does not build character.  suffering of a child through abuse does not build character.  suffering of a nation through a flood does not build character. 

 

Hi Birthstone,

 

You're making some pretty sweeping generalizations there. I can't agree with you. I believe sometimes suffering does build character. If not in the infant than in the infant's parents or guardians. In any case, I believe God chiefly uses suffering to bring people to accept Jesus. The building of character is quite a secondary thing. I believe that God's chief end is to bring glory to himself, not to us.

 

Peace in Christ.

 

I also cannot agree with you Jae.  My 11 year old son recently spent months enduring chronic pain we have been trying to manage.  Fortunately I think we have a handle on it now (move to a GJ tube) but I cannot believe for a minute that his months of suffering pain he could not control nor understand accomplished anything constructive.  The pain was simply suffering for him, and quite frankly for me as well as his mother who stood by powerless. 

 

If this is God's idea of teaching me a lesson, be it humility, compassion, patience, strength or whatever, then I cannot look to this God.  That is a cruel being and does not coincide with my image of a loving, compassionate God who wants nothing beyond the best for Her creation.

 

For me, God is not in the suffering but in the journey.  Sometimes that journey includes suffering simply because suffering is part of the human condition. Suffering simply "is" and it just plain sucks and I think God agrees.

 

I believe your son's journey would be hopeless without you, his mother. Or for any child that didn't have someone to intervene to make the suffering less.

 

Oh that we could just focus our whole world to listen to what God would have us do.

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RivermanJae wrote:    I hold

RivermanJae wrote:

 

 I hold that God can use suffering in a person's life as a way to bring that person to accept Jesus into their heart.

 

 

jae, this sounds like blackmail to me.

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Hi Daisy Jane, You

Hi Daisy Jane,

You wrote:

"For me, God is not in the suffering but in the journey.  Sometimes that journey includes suffering simply because suffering is part of the human condition. Suffering simply "is" and it just plain sucks and I think God agrees."

God's agreement with your contention that "suffering sucks" can be found in the Bible's shortest verse:  "Jesus wept."  It can be found in the story of Lazarus and Jesus' weeping was in response to the suffering the family  &  friends of Lazarus felt at their loved ones passing.  For those who see my suffering and say, "You'll be a better person for it,"  I reply, "SHADDUP!"

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abpenny wrote: Wow, Jae, your

abpenny wrote:

Wow, Jae, your concept of God sounds like a childish narcissist to me. 

 

Hi abpenny,

 

Well I do believe that God is both selfish and jealous. I think that's pretty much indicated in the Bible. Does that make him like a childish narcissist? Perhaps. Or perhaps childish narcissists are like God.

 

In any event, I also believe a lot of suffering comes from the injustices we humans do to other humans. We are all born in a fallen state, and our own selfishnesses lead to a lot of pain and hurt. I believe the answer to this state is to trust in Jesus to rescue us from it.

 

Peace in Christ.

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revjohn wrote:I don't think

revjohn wrote:
I don't think that God is a puppeteer pulling all strings.  I am not a pre-determinist.

 

Hi revjohn,

 

How do you reconcile that thinking with your being a strict Calvinist (who holds that (and please correct me if I'm wrong) God saves people against their free will)? Do you not see that as puppeteering?

 

Peace in Christ.

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crazyheart wrote: jae, this

crazyheart wrote:

jae, this sounds like blackmail to me.

 

Hi crazyheart,

 

How do you see it as being "blackmail"?

 

Perhaps I should explain a bit. What I believe is that through suffering God can humble a person, bring him or her to see that they can't do life alone. Bring them to their knees crying out for Jesus to become their Lord and Master.

 

Please explain how you see this as blackmail. When they accept Jesus there is no guarantee that said suffering will end.

 

Thank you.

 

Peace in Christ.

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Hi Jae,   Jae wrote: How do

Hi Jae,

 

Jae wrote:

How do you reconcile that thinking with your being a strict Calvinist (who holds that (and please correct me if I'm wrong) God saves people against their free will)? Do you not see that as puppeteering?

 

Pre-destination is the pre-setting of a destination.  I will get to place A even if I do not know the way.

 

Pre-determinism is the pre-setting of every decision that I will ever make.  I will make choice A because there is no alternative for me to make choice A.

 

The free-will argument is a non-starter in fallen individuals unless the will is above the stain of sin.  If your will is free then you are quite capable of being perfect and you only choose not to be.  If that actually is the case I would hope to see some evidence of it somewhere in the world.  Heck, I'd even settle for seeing some of it here at the WonderCafe.  

 

As to the charge of puppeteering.

 

When a fire-fighter pulls an individual from a burning building are they playing puppet master?

 

When a doctor starts a heart that has stopped beating are they playing puppet master?

 

I would argue that they are not simply because neither typically sets the blaze to save individuals from it or stops their heart just to restart it again and therefore force the other into some sense of obligation.

 

Pre-determinism is puppeteering since it is the puppet master that controls all variables.  Pre-destination only ensures that I will arrive at a specific place.  It does not control every step between the first and the last.

 

Grace and peace to you.

John

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Birthstone To continue with

Birthstone

To continue with the possible idea that God doesn't have a plan for us -

Way, way back in our concept of time we "fell" (i.e. the Adam and Eve story) and we moved away from an intimate relationship with God.

But God likely operates outside of time.

So he already has us back.

But we who insist on believing in time aren't there yet. We see that "return" as a future event.

SInce we are already back from God's point of view He has no need to issue plans and control our lives. We are the nutcases that live in the illusion.

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revjohn wrote:Pre-destination

revjohn wrote:
Pre-destination is the pre-setting of a destination.  I will get to place A even if I do not know the way.

 

Pre-determinism is the pre-setting of every decision that I will ever make.  I will make choice A because there is no alternative for me to make choice A.

 

Hi rev.,

 

Thank you for your answers. Going by your descriptions above, I guess I believe more in pre-determinism. I don't believe God leads us to make choice A though because there is no alternative. I believe he sets the conditions in place wherein he knows we will choose choice A.

 

I would write more but I'm about to be kicked out of the library.

 

Peace in Christ.

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I like that!

I like that!

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Jae wrote: Well I do believe

Jae wrote:

Well I do believe that God is both selfish and jealous. I think that's pretty much indicated in the Bible. Does that make him like a childish narcissist? Perhaps. Or perhaps childish narcissists are like God.

 

Childish narcissist is too kind. Where I come from, we call that kind of person a jacka** or worse. It's another reason why I don't believe in a transcendant, judgmental, controlling God.

 

Jae wrote:

In any event, I also believe a lot of suffering comes from the injustices we humans do to other humans. We are all born in a fallen state, and our own selfishnesses lead to a lot of pain and hurt. I believe the answer to this state is to trust in Jesus to rescue us from it.

 

I can agree with this wholeheartedly up to the first period. I can also buy the second sentence from the word "our" onwards (I don't believe we were born in a fallen state, but do believe selfishness causes a lot of suffering). I do not agree with the third sentence at all. Jesus and other prophets were sent to teach and guide us, not rescue us. The rescuing ultimately comes from us realizing that we exist in relationship to all that is and living that relationship with compassion and responsibility.

 

Mendalla

 

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