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Inclusive and Equal

Is the United Church truly "inclusive" for all?

If so, why can`t the United Church make a policy allowing adherents to be included in a vote on church matters.  If the majority of members in that church want the vote of adherents, why won`t the Presbytery and National church levels honor their decision

Shouldn`t inclusive also be equal

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In part to prevent "hostile

In part to prevent "hostile takeovers".  In part because there are differing understandings of membership.  And it isn't just the interests of the local congregation that are at stake.  THe interests of the wider church are too -- for example in property matters.

 

That being said, adherents can be granted the voting privelege on many things.  Mind you I still fail to see how the budget of a church is a temporal matter not a spiritual one.

 

However, I do think that a new solution has to be found as ideas around membership and "joining" are changing.

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Hi, auchters -    What I'd

Hi, auchters -

 

 What I'd love to know is why people want to be part of the decision-making process, but don't want to become members.

 

I realize that it's different for each person... but the profession of faith questions are pretty simple (Do you believe in God? Do you believe in Jesus Christ the word made flesh? Do you believe in the Holy Spirit? Are you willing to work with the rest of Christ's people to live out Christ's ministry" - or some version of such.) If one can't answer those three in the affirmative, why would they want to be part of the congregation's decision-making?

 

It's not as if - in many denominations - one is "giving up their membership" in another, by becoming a member in a UC congregation. As I understand it, a Roman Catholic - in the eyes of the Roman Catholic church - is always a Roman Catholic. In the eyes of the Anglican Church, an Anglican is always an Anglican. I think its the same for some Lutheran traditions. Then there are denominations that require ongoing participation to maintain membership - like the United Church, and a number of the evangelical denominations.

 

So... ummm... why?

 

Christ's peace - r

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I went to church (UC) but no

I went to church (UC) but no one there talked about spiritual things.  Teas, bake sales, rummage sales, turkey suppers, meetings.  Didn't seem to be anything much there to actually join.  Didn't seem to be much point in going anymore.

Richard - I don't even understand the questions you pose so I couldn't say they reflect whaat I believe.  What DOES 'Jesus Christ the word made flesh' really mean.  Is it referring to the impregnation of a Virgin?  By a God that presumably has a humanish body to be able to do that? I know that doesn't reflect what I believe. 

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 That's the joy of the

 That's the joy of the questions, kay...

they're open to exploration! They're open to nuance and wonder and argument. (Note that the congregation doesn't require the person to explain what they understand the question to mean... just that they can agree to it in some form.)

 

I know what they mean to me. Well. I know what they mean to me, at the moment! *grin*

I also know that what they mean to me is quite different than the person sitting beside me (and she happens to be my partner.) We're both members of the UCCan, even though we understand it differently.

 

I'd argue that the decision-making of any faith-community needs to reflect it's faith... no matter how diverse that faith might be. So, to be a decision-making person, one needs to have made some kind of commitment to that community's experience and articulation(s) of faith. In essence, membership in the UCCan is simply a willingness to say, "Yep. I have some kind of relationship with God, Christ and Spirit - and I want to be in relationship with the rest of you as I figure out what this stuff is about."

 

Christ's peace - r

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RichardBott,   Some adults

RichardBott,

 

Some adults (not all) who start attending a church have never been confirmed.  At my church confirmation classes aren't offered every year.  I was an adherant for several years before I was able to attend confirmation classes and then become a full member of the church.

 

Just saying that churches really vary in terms of opportunities to actually become a member if you are not yet confirmed.  I had long-since been commited to the church spiritually and contributing in terms of time and financial support and finding a place as a part of the community before I was ever an official member.

 

Not a complaint there.  Just a consideration.  It wasn't about being "willing to say the words" for me.  Nor was waiting an awful thing.  I was OK about the voting.  I'm just speaking to what you said about why people don't become members.

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 Hi, Tiger Lilly -   Thank

 Hi, Tiger Lilly -

 

Thank you for posting that. You're right - part of the difficulty is that congregations don't always have in place a constant process for people to make their profession of faith (aka 'confirmation').

 

One of the things we try to do, here, is have an ongoing invitation for anyone interested in entering into membership in the congregation - through transfer or profession of faith. If someone says, "Yes, I'd like to," then either the minister and a member of the Council, or a couple of members of Council meet with them, to explore those questions - and set a date.

 

We do try to have "Christianity 101" and "Discipleship: U.N.I.T.E.D." running two or three times a year, so that people can dive deeper into their faith, as well.

 

Soooo... (writing on notepad)... "make sure that there are regular opportunities for people to explore the questions". Got it! Thanks!

 

Christ's peace - r

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Its true that I can't speak

Its true that I can't speak for all congregations.  During my lifetime I have only been a member of about 1/2 dozen. rural and urban, large and small.  I have never before heard of anyone having to wait for a long period of time for confirmation and membership.  I would think that if a person approached the minister or the clerk of session with a request for confirmation, classes could be arranged even for one person. 

 

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Can someone explain what

Can someone explain what matters adherents can and cannot vote on? Every meeting I have ever been to begins with a motion permitting adherents voting priviledges. I am learning how outside the governing rules some congregations operate, like on threads about clergy being at meetings and the like....

 

On the topic of inclusive and welcome and open, I just read in Barbara Brown Taylor's book When God is Silent --- 

"Every time I pass a church with a sign out front that says "our doors and hearts are open to everyone', I think 'vine ripe tomatoes' . No church I know is open to everyone. Whom do we think we are fooling? I would so much rather see a sign that says 'we do the best we can' or better yet  'Christians meet here. Enter at your own risk'."

 

The reference to 'vine ripe tomatoes' is that she speaks of that sign being on tomatoes and then biting into mealy, pale pink tomatoes.

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 Well... by the polity of The

 Well... by the polity of The United Church of Canada, with the permission of the members, adherents can be given permission to vote on "temporal matters". (I bet that really answers your question, Stevie. *grin*)

 

The definition of "Temporal Matters" is:

"those transitory and secular affairs that pertain to the life, work, and finances of a Congregation. Without limiting the generality of the foregoing, Temporal Matters to not include: the calling of a member of the Order of Ministry; a request to a Presbytery for an appointment; the election of an Elder or a Trustee; the order of worship; the discipline of the United Church; the amalgamation of Pastoral Charges or Congregations; the disbanding of Pastoral Charges or Congregations; and property matters requiring the consent of the Presbytery." (The Manual 2007, sec. 001)

 

One must be a member of a specific UC congregation to be an Elder (Member of the Session or its Equivalent - Board, Council). One does not need to be a member to be a Trustee - as long as a majority of the Trustees are members.

 

The members can give "corresponding membership" to the adherents at the beginning of a meeting - this means that they have the right to speak on matters, but not the right to vote on them.

 

Fun. fun. fuuuunnnn.

 

Christ's peace - r

 

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Seeler,   I didn't ask about

Seeler,

 

I didn't ask about doing it individually.  That may have been a possibility.  I didn't think of that.  So that opportunity may well have been there.

 

TL

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Thanks for your comments, and

Thanks for your comments, and I'm glad we are questioning this.  Every year, around Septemer, our church has a service where the entire congregation professes their faith. If they are standing in that congregation, on that day, that profession of faith means they are a member, but haven't gone through the technicalities of acquiring a certificate.  We have adherents in our congregation that don't feel it necessary to become a formal members because they are able to be involved in every way and support the church and God in every way.  The United Church is worried about hostile take overs, but what about churches closing because we haven't been open and inclusive and people are walking away.  If a congregation of members of a church wants the adherents to vote, and support those adherents, in the same way the adherent supports the church, I don't  seem why the United Church of Canada can't support that decision by the individual church.  The national offices don't have a relationship with those attendees.  Again, are we truly inclusive if we are not equal?  Churches should not have memberships. This isn't an exclusive club and membership shouldn't be required. It is a place of worship for all.  Those who worship in that church should also have the right to vote on all matters pertaining to that congregation.  Are we so afraid of a hostile takeover that we build walls that keep the people out?

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auchters wrote: If a

auchters wrote:

If a congregation of members of a church wants the adherents to vote, and support those adherents, in the same way the adherent supports the church, I don't  seem why the United Church of Canada can't support that decision by the individual church.  The national offices don't have a relationship with those attendees. 

 

Because it is not just the congregation's interests at issue.  It is the wider church's interests in terms of property and in terms of pastoral relations issues.  If you allow all adherents to vote on anything, then it is hard to ensure that only people with a connection to the congregation (what is the test of an active adherent?) have a say in the life of the congregation.  Mind you with many congregations a members-only issue can easily have folk with a formal connection but no current active connection coming out of the woodwork to vote.  It really is not a simple equation

 

If you have everybody profess faith then they should all be on the historic roll and get membership.  ANd your stats for the national church should reflect that. 

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My parents are not members. 

My parents are not members.  They have been adherents for almost 20 years.  They are active in the congregation.  They have a "thing" about membership.  They do NOT wish to vote on the minister.

 

 

One thing  that I shold know, but, I forget, is presbytery charges based on members?  I think it is correct?

 

You see, for me, I feel we should be paying presbytery dues for folks like my parents.  They will be buried from the church, they are active in the church. 

 

oh well, I know they are by far the exception in our congregation ;however, it is another angle.

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Technical question to the

Technical question to the ordained folks here - does voting on a remit require membershp? (I realize that most of the time that's a moot question as remits don't seem to be put to the congregation very often).

 

Back to the original question. In every UC I've been part of, adherents were always able to vote. There were only two exceptions - a vote on amalgamation and votes on calling a new minister (as mentioned above). And it's not exactly difficult to become a member. So where's the exclusion?

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Suppose for a moment there is

Suppose for a moment there is a vacancy and the congregation is about to call a new minister.  The proper steps have been taken, a JNAC perpared, a search committee in place.  They call a congregational meeting to present the candidate they have chosen.

 

But, there is a small but vocal group in the congregation who wants to see the church go in a different direction.  They know of a minister who supports their views and would love the opportunity to move into this church.  So, on the day of the congregational meeting, many friends and relatives of this particular minister and his supporters attend the worship service and then attend the meeting.  If there is no rule about who votes and who doesn't, everybody at the meeting has a right to vote.  So the search committee, who represent the majority of church members, present the information about the candidate of their choice.  Then the other group nominates their candidate and call for a vote.  Everybody present votes, whether they have formal membership, have attended the church for ten years, are new in the last six months, or this is their first day of attending.  And the newly nominate minister wins. 

 

Does that seem fair or right? 

 

As much as I would like to say that all are equal I think that we have to have rules and follow procedure.  If we do away with formal membership, do we put other rules in place?  Such as, attending 30 Sundays out of the last 52?   Or regularly for the last six months?   Or do we open it to everyone who comes on the Sunday the vote is being taken?

 

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Spiritbear - yes. All remits

Spiritbear - yes. All remits have to do with changes to the Basis of Union... a "non-temporal" document, at best. *grin*

Christ's peace - r

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 Hi, Seeler -   About a year

 Hi, Seeler -

 

About a year ago, for a couple of different reasons (statistical & demographic, and making sure that the Elders would be in contact with people who weren't here), we instituted a "communications sheet" which invited everyone to sign-in. (If someone isn't here for three Sundays, their Elder is contacted, and calls them to make sure everything is ok.)

 

It's worked wonders for us - espeecially when our guests fill out the contact part of the sheet, and we can send a 'thank-you - we were glad to have you with us" note.

 

One of the things it has done is given us a way to understand which of our adherents are regular participants in worship. That would allow us to move to some kind of a decision-making model that was based on worship participation, rather than profession of faith.

 

The thing is... I think that profession of faith is an important part of the decision-making process, if we believe we're about discerning God's will for our communal life. There is one participant at StAH who has been with us for decades, and wants to sit on the Board, but has been vocal that s/he doesn't believe in God. So - in that case - why would s/he want to be part of the spiritual decision-making processes of the church? 

 

Christ's peace - r

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Pinga, it depends on the

Pinga,

it depends on the Presbytery and conference as different formulae are used in different places.  It used to be that the number of members on the roll did impact assessments (Conference asesses PResbytery and PResbytery asses Pastoral Charges).  In these parts it is based on a ratio using earnings, spending and identifiable givers.

 

spiritbear,

when a remit is sent to PAstoral Charges it is the Board that votes, not the congregation.  The BOard may well discuss it with the congregation and have some sort of straw poll but is not officially bound by that. (practically and politically they may be)

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 Good catch, Gord!

 Good catch, Gord! *grin*

 

Pinga - in the Presbytery I'm part of, there's a wonderfully complex formula that's based on "line 40" in the Yearbook - that's the annual income of a congregation.

 

I think, here, it's averaged over three years, divided pi to 14 places, then multiplied by the number of working right thumbs at the last Board meeting.

 

Or something like that. :)

 

Christ's peace - r

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RichardBott wrote: Spiritbear

RichardBott wrote:

Spiritbear - yes. All remits have to do with changes to the Basis of Union... a "non-temporal" document, at best. *grin*

Christ's peace - r

And a non-logical and non-useful document at worst

 

So Richard, can you explain how the budget of a faith community is a temporal matter but not a spiritual matter?

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wow, budget would be

wow, budget would be spiritual, i would think.....it is about how we live out our faith.  interestingquestion, gordw...as adherents always vote on this item, i think.

 

ok, come to think about it..what  decision  that we do wouldn't be about living out or faith, or of the spirit?

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That is my question too Pinga

That is my question too Pinga

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 I would never argue that the

 I would never argue that the budget is a "temporal matter", Gord. :D

 

While it has to do with financial matters, I don't believe they could be considered matters of a "transitory" nature. Budgets, from my perspective, are part of the tools for the long-view of the mission and ministry of the congregation... and how were going to use the financial gifts God has given us to get there.

 

But, here's the other thing - I would also argue that the congregation doesn't vote on the budget.

That's a matter for the Board.

 

*grin* Let's have fun discussing that one!

 

Christ's peace - r

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I am just sitting here

I am just sitting here shaking my head.

 

Are some churches independent entities or that they just think they are?

 

Where does one find a manual? LMAO

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Hi, Stevie -   Here it is...

Hi, Stevie -

 

Here it is... for free! *grin* 

 

http://www.united-church.ca/files/manual/2007_manual.pdf

 

Christ's peace - r

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In the United Church, much is

In the United Church, much is left up to the congregations.

 

In our congregation, the Board votes on the budget and the congregation at the AGM votes on the Board's vote. If the congregation were to disapprove, then the Board would have to come up with a new and more satisfactory budget.

 

Prior to the AGM, we usually vote that attendees who are not official members of the UC or of our congregation be allowed to vote.

 

Our outreach programs, like wonderCafe-live! and wonderQuest , are governed by a "wonderCircle" that has a majority of members from outside our congregation. We are not afraid of a hostile takeover, but a friendly takeover is within the realm of possibilities

 

Also, I agree with Pinga and others: money matters, and money matters are spiritual matters.

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Hi, Arminius...    Actually,

Hi, Arminius... 

 

Actually, Arminius - I'd like to suggest that "much is left up to the decision-making body of the congregation: the Session, Board, Council, whatever," would be a more correct statement.

 

Our polity actually leaves very little up to the whole congregational body.

 

And, I'm sorry to differ with you, but - while it would be in the best interests of the congregation for the Board to re-work a budget that the congregation thought was a dud, there is no requirement that they do so. (It would be a good idea, 'cause people probably wouldn't put money into a ministry that they thought was not being responsible with its financial stewardship... but its still the Board's decision about whether or not to take the recommendations of the congregation.)

 

I'm not sure that most congregations understand that decisions - even good ones - could be overturned if the overseeing court (in the case of a congregation, the Presbytery) found that adherents had been given the ability to vote on a non-temporal matter. INAL (I am not a lawyer... just a Manual geek) but I'd even argue that congregations are putting themselves at legal risk by knowingly electing to the Session (or its equivalent) people who are not members of the congregation. Like I said above, if somebody didn't like what a Session (or equivalent) was doing, and decided to challenge, well... the church wasn't following its own rules.

 

Now... I'd love to come up with a way that we could rework the polity on this one. But until it changes, that's what we've got to work with.

 

The Manual is the UCCan's bylaw book... not a book of guidelines.

 

Christ's peace - r

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Yes, Richard, I agree, and I

Yes, Richard, I agree, and I realize that we are going against the UC Manual in some of the things we are doing. But we are a very small rural congregation. Our Board, Councils and Committees have to be in tune with the wishes of the congregation, or else our small congregation might collapse. (Actually, about half of our congregation are sitting on Boards and Committees :-) We have to do what it takes to stay alive.

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Thanks again for your

Thanks again for your responses.  As a member, I attend regularly, I contribute regularly, but so do many of our adherents, some probably at a higher level than myself.  Membership is a formality that means very little. Whether spiritual, temporal or other matters, the congregation should be supportive of the active adherents and make the decision when they can and cannot vote.  The congregation is the representative body for that area for the national church. The property is managed and maintained by the congregational body.  I think they should have some say in what matters.  If a congregation in a local area no longer decided to support a church, the church becomes a piece of property that is sold by the national body.  It no longer supports the working of the national church, but really has little impact nationally.  If that church isn't actve, it most cases it hurts that locally community more than the national body.  The JNAC committee represents the entire church membership, not just those with member status. There job is to define the needs of the entire church, including those of adherents, so the adherents should also have a say and a vote for a new minister.  Again, it isn't an exclusive club.  I would turn my vote over to any adherent in my congregation, but I don't have that right either.  Is the status of membership actually putting up walls instead of taking them down?

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If a person is committed to a

If a person is committed to a particular congregation and wants to have a vote on various matters, why not become a member? 

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 So - let's define what an

 So - let's define what an "active member" is, auchters.

 

If we could do that, it wouldn't be difficult for someone to put a Proposal to their Board to go to General Council. GC could then make a decision whether to change things.

 

Christ's peace - r

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Everyone is free to attend my

Everyone is free to attend my church's business meetings, but only members get to vote.

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Defining member doesn't

Defining member doesn't resolve it because to me, it still places a status on a church attendee.  For me, anyone who walks into God's church, believer, sinner, attendee, or other are a part of God's family, and should be made part of whatever is going on.  Putting up walls by creating member status, being concerned about hostile takeovers doesn't put any faith in God.  God has a plan.  if we have faith in that plan, we should have enough faith to trust that God brought us together and that together we will make the right choices and plans.  Anyone who comes to church is part of Gods family.  No criteria.  No walls.  Just trust and faith.  I realize, that means redefining the structure of the church, presbytery dues, etc, but it also might mean people connecting at church, no judgement, just acceptance for who they are, and what they are able to contribute, in their own way.  Churches should not be exclusive, but rather inclusive.  Love one another. 

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auchters - if anybody who

auchters - if anybody who walks through a church door is immediately welcomed as a full member, what is to stop a group from deciding that they would like control of the church building for their own purposes and then walking in as a group, calling a meeting, making a motion, and then voting it in? 

 

It seems to be that no matter how welcoming we try to be, we still have to have rules and procedures to follow.  If we didn't restrict voting privileges to members we would have to find another way of deciding who has the right and responsibility to call a spiritual leader or change a policy. 

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auchters wrote:For me, anyone

auchters wrote:
For me, anyone who walks into God's church, believer, sinner, attendee, or other are a part of God's family...

 

Agreed. I also personally believe that anyone who doesn't walk in is also a part of God's family.

 

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Anyone who comes to church is part of Gods family.

 

Personally, I believe that Jesus died for the sins of the whole world. When he did so, he made it so that everyone became one of God's children. I think it's wonderful that people go to church. To read the Bible and hear it proclaimed, to fellowship, to take communion, to get baptized. Why do you believe that going to church is a requirement to be in God's family?

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I think that in this case

I think that in this case being part of God's family and having voting rights at a particular congregation are two different things.

 

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Several years ago-when after

Several years ago-when after careful and study and discussion it became clear that our congregation was going to vote in the spring about decding whether or not to be affriming.

It was clearly stated that only members could vote.

We had the largest number of folks receive full membership that year through transfer of membership, and/or profession of faith. It included folks who had been attending for 25 years.

Some weren't aware before what the process was for full membership or even that they didn't have it.

So my understanding is for faith questions-calling a minister, becoming (or not) affirming, closing a congreagtion or joining with another one you must be a full member-baptism and public confession of faith (confirmation)

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Tabitha - I hope that these

Tabitha - I hope that these new members (and the old) voted in the affirmative about becoming affriming.

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On the subject of membership

On the subject of membership and given that there's at least one manual "geek" hanging out on this thread: I was baptised and confirmed in the UCC, but have not been an active member since c. 1989 (other than being married in my family church in 1993). I am currently a member of UU fellowship (as many of you know). However, as many of you also know, I attend a UCC with my wife. So, what if I have a change of heart and decide to return to the UCC by joining this UCC? Do I need to "re-profess" my faith, given that I was confirmed in the UCC already? Is it up to the local church to decide or is there something in the manual?

 

I'm not really planning to do so right now. Indeed, I could not, in good conscience, answer the questions Richard quoted above in the affirmative (okay, I could probably do so with about a dozen caveats about what I mean by answering in the affirmative, but I would feel uncomfortable doing so). However, given this discussion about the rights and meaning of membership, I'm curious about what might happen if my feelings on the subject change.

 

Mendalla

 

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I think the term is

I think the term is "re-afirmation of Faith" You publicly acknowledge that you want to be a member of UCC etc.

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I agree that people inside or

I agree that people inside or outside are part of God's family.  To be truly inclusive, we need to be truly inclusive.  To include.  To include everyone in all matters.  Perhaps someone can give me statistics on when and how many hostile takeovers have occurred in churches?  If the property is owned by the national church, no vote could put the property at risk without Presbytery or the National offices being involved.  The property isn't owned by the congregation.  If a minister is supportive of the church congregation, both members and adherents, then both members and adherents should have a say in choosing a minister and in both spiritual and temporal matters.  I think the idea of "membership" or "member status" in a church is keeping out more members than it is bringing in.  What are the benefits of being a "member" other than a vote?  I guess for me, all humans are members;  members of mankind and therefore should be respected for what they can offer and contribute to both church, community and the world.  If all members of a congregation requested that their names be removed as member from the formal historic roll then what?  An empty book, but maybe a full church.

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No one has the stats on how

No one has the stats on how many hostile takeovers in churches???  Couldn't have been that significant then.  Why do we always use it as an excuse instead of moving forward and making the United Church truly inclusive?  Votes for all on all matters.

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Sorry, auchters.   People

Sorry, auchters.

 

People need to be prepared to make a formal commitment to God's ministry through a congregation, before I would be prepared to support their participation in the formal discernment process. I will do everything I can to make sure that anyone who is part of the community has a voice in the decision making... but to be part of the congregation that guides the spiritual life of the church, a formal commitment to that congregation's expression of its faith.

 

This is not in the least saying that they are not part of God's family - or even part of Christ's community. It is saying, however, that there are expectations of the people who are called into congregational leadership.

 

Anyone, of any faith understanding (or no faith understanding),  is welcome to come and worship and participate and live with us. Anyone, of any faith understanding or no faith understanding, is welcome to express what that means to them, and what they believe it could mean to the rest of the community. Anyone, of any faith understanding or no faith understanding, is welcome to have voice in the discussions. To actually make decisions of a "non-temporal" nature, people need to make a commitment to the expression of faith lived out in that United Church community.

 

Except for the concern that churches don't offer the option particularly often, I haven't heard why this should be a problem.

 

If people believe they are part of God's family and household in Christ's love, what is keeping them from saying that out loud? What is keeping people from making a commitment to the congregation? As you've pointed out, the only difference is whether or not they are allowed to vote on certain parts of the life of the congregation, or sit on the Board/Council/Session.

 

Christ's peace - r

 

 

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Mendella -- look at the song

Mendella -- look at the song of faith, and see if you could agree with that?

Also, my understanding is you would have a transfer of membership.

Unless you formally requested your names be removed from the rolls of the church, then, you are likely still on the historical rolls.

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Transfer of membership is

Transfer of membership is only within UCC Congregations.  Since Mendalla is now UU, the route in question would be Reaffirmation of Faith.

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 Actually, Pinga - a name is

 Actually, Pinga - a name is *never* removed from the Historic Roll, even when someone leaves the congregation. A line might go through it, and beside it should go the date at which they left the membership of the congregation (through death, transfer, or by action of the Session of its equivalent). So Mandella's name will be on the Historic Roll of the congregation, though he may have been removed from the membership by an action of the Session or its equivalent.

 

Mendalla, you have my empathy about the caveats. I think that each ofus interprets what those words mean to us... and we try to figure out if we can in good conscience and with our understandings, agree to them. there are members of the congregation with whom I currently serve who cannot, in good conscience, answer in the affirmative. They are still vital, active participants in our congregation, whose voices are turned to for the wisdom they offer.

 

Christ's peace - r 

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ANd I would say that a line

ANd I would say that a line should not be put through the name, just the date and means of removal placed in the appropriate column.  When entries are lined out it makes it hard to do checks of if a person was on the roll and when he/she was removed.

 

The historian in me wants the roll to remain as legible and easy to follow as possible (and I have had to search through lined out entries--trust me it ain't easy)

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RevMatt wrote: Transfer of

RevMatt wrote:

Transfer of membership is only within UCC Congregations.  Since Mendalla is now UU, the route in question would be Reaffirmation of Faith.

 

That's pretty much what I would expect, but I was curious to know what the answer would be. The term reaffirmation is funny because I would really be affirming for the first time given that my faith, even if I returned to the UCC, would be a very different one than it was when I was confirmed at 13 (or somewhere thereabouts). 30+ years of life and thinking about life does that to you .

 

Mendalla

 

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If 95% of the world believe

If 95% of the world believe in God, why can't we believe in those that are present in the church to make those decisions at that time? Whatever those decisions may be. If they had enough committment to be in the church, isn't that enough?  Why can't we have faith in the plan that God has put in place?  Why do we continue to restrict, rather than embrace?  Why do we exclude instead of taking that risk, and include?  Are we afraid or do we doubt the plan?

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mendella....I know that even

mendella....I know that even though i joined as an adult, my faith has shifted over time.

 

i think that is to be expected for many folks....

 

 

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Thanks for the clarification, RichardBott.

 

so,say someone is really really ticked at the United church...they ask for their name to be removed....I would guess that means from membership in the United church...that the historical rolls would still have their name, but, it would also have something like, the date they asked to be removed.

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