Does personality leave the body when we die or does our personality live on. This would presume that "personality" is a thing - a noun.If it is a thing, where does it go?
If personality isn't a "thing", where do we get it? Are we born with it or is it a learned thing from the people around us? If God says"everything is good", when, then do we become hateful, selfish, loving, serene etc?
What are your thoughts?
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seeler
Goodness Crazyheart - I don't
Posted on: 02/01/2009 13:58
Goodness Crazyheart - I don't know. I think personality is something we are born with (everybody who has had more than one child knows that children are different from birth or even prebirth). But personality is also something that we develop throughout our lives.
Where does it go when we die? I suppose it depends on our definition of the after-life or heaven. I think that somehow our essense, who we are, (yes, our personality) continues to exist but in a different realm. I think that somehow we our spirits are linked to the all encompasing spirit that is God. But not as a drop of water falling into the ocean loses its identity and becomes part of the ocean but somehow that personality that has been born and developed over a lifetime continues on in the life to come.
I realize that I have used 'somehow' too many times. But I cannot explain the unexplainable.
killer_rabbit79
I believe that our
Posted on: 02/01/2009 14:09
I believe that our personality is imprinted in our brain and that when our brain dies that our personality will die with it. We can always write journals and memoirs that will keep our personalities alive after our bodies die though.
Eileenrl
I think it is something we
Posted on: 02/01/2009 16:14
I think it is something we are born with crazyheart - but I'm not sure - I've never given it much thought.
Something to think about for the balance of the day. The weather here in Ottawa is mild and overcast.
bygraceiam
Hi crazyheart.......God bless
Posted on: 02/01/2009 17:21
Hi crazyheart.......God bless you....
I believe that the Essence of God is put in our minds when God makes us in the womb...then as we grow and age...other parts of our mind are subject to the sin (worse/enemy) things of the world...this is just another reason why Jesus died on the Cross so with His help we can defeat the sin (means off the mark with God)...thus working our way to redemption...sin perfected...God causes us to inherit substance , love , peace, joy , goodness, compassion, honesty, righteousness, wisdom, knowledge, purpose, kindness ........these bonds are what travel with us along with our memories...when we end our journey here and begin a new one after we leave this world.......
IJL:bg
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Where does the personality
Posted on: 02/01/2009 17:48
Where does the personality go?
I think you have to start with the differing views of heaven. For the typical Christian, heaven is a perfect place that some of us (or all of us) go to when we die. But, if it is to be perfect then we can't have weird personalities running around. One could therefore argue that your personality gets left behind. As Killer says, it dies with the brain.
But, if you believe in a heaven with levels and also in multiple lives as I do, then one could argue that the personalities survive and roam around their select layer of heaven. This only bothers like minded souls on that level (a good incentive to advance).
Atheisto
bygraceiam wrote: Hi
Posted on: 02/01/2009 18:53
Hi crazyheart.......God bless you....
I believe that the Essence of God is put in our minds when God makes us in the womb...then as we grow and age...other parts of our mind are subject to the sin (worse/enemy) things of the world...this is just another reason why Jesus died on the Cross so with His help we can defeat the sin (means off the mark with God)...thus working our way to redemption...sin perfected...God causes us to inherit substance , love , peace, joy , goodness, compassion, honesty, righteousness, wisdom, knowledge, purpose, kindness ........these bonds are what travel with us along with our memories...when we end our journey here and begin a new one after we leave this world.......
IJL:bg
Hmm...makes you wonder about people with no god in their lives that are every bit the same as these god-filled people you seem to write about. Someone's wrong somewhere.
RichardBott
Speaking from personal
Posted on: 02/01/2009 18:58
Speaking from personal experience about my own personality - some of us don't have one, even though we're alive.
Christ's peace - r
Elanorgold
Well personality is formed
Posted on: 02/01/2009 19:05
Well personality is formed through all the experiences we have in our lives, mainly the first 10 years or so. I bet there is some dna part of it too though: calm baby, pain in the butt baby.
WHen we die our personality can be preserved in what we leave behind, and in bits in the people who we affected in our lives.
levikain
your personaliy thoughts,
Posted on: 02/01/2009 19:53
your personaliy thoughts, memory etc.
is stored in the spirit of the man like a storage device but this spirit in man cannot think see smell hear etc. of it own, so when you die you go to sheol (the grave) but the spirit that stored your llife goes back to God for judgement
Atheisto
levikain wrote: your
Posted on: 02/01/2009 20:21
your personaliy thoughts, memory etc.
is stored in the spirit of the man like a storage device but this spirit in man cannot think see smell hear etc. of it own, so when you die you go to sheol (the grave) but the spirit that stored your llife goes back to God for judgement
How many moons can you see from your planet?
crazyheart
"WHen we die our personality
Posted on: 02/01/2009 20:21
"WHen we die our personality can be preserved in what we leave behind, and in bits in the people who we affected in our lives" EleanorGold, I think that bits of our personalty are left in the people we have encountered and left behind. But maybe that is just a PollyAnna outlook - not sure.
RichardBott, were you born without one or did you lose it?
Arminius
If our brain burns its
Posted on: 02/01/2009 20:53
If our brain burns its memories in the form of a hologram into inverse space and reverse time, then the memory body could conceivably survive the death of its physical body, and continue to exist independently of it, as a hologram in inverse space.
This, of course, presupposes the existence of three-dimensionally inverse space and reverse time, as well as the capacity of the brain to burn its memories holographically into inverse space.
These are big "ifs," but I believe it to be so, until and unless proven otherwise.
Atheisto
Arminius wrote: If our brain
Posted on: 02/01/2009 21:11
If our brain burns its memories in the form of a hologram into inverse space and reverse time, then the memory body could conceivably survive the death of its physical body, and continue to exist independently of it, as a hologram in inverse space.
This, of course, presupposes the existence of three-dimensionally inverse space and reverse time, as well as the capacity of the brain to burn its memories holographically into inverse space.
These are big "ifs," but I believe it to be so, until and unless proven otherwise.
You need a laser to make a hologram.
Arminius
Yes, Atheisto, I know. I
Posted on: 02/02/2009 11:04
Yes, Atheisto, I know. I imagine that the neurons or synaptic connections of our brain are firing off lasers that leap in inward quantum leaps into inverse space and record our memory in the form of a hologram.
Leapin' lasers!, eh?
Star Stuff
Quote:Does personality leave
Posted on: 02/01/2009 22:50
Neither. Thanks to what we know from neuroscience, it is safe to say that all of what we are is the result of brain activity. Nothing supernatural required. We humans have traditionally had a terrible time accepting our own non-existance, and this discomfort, along with the fear of death and the wish to survive it is the birthplace of all supernatural (religious) beliefs. It is our ego that is responsible for the proposterous idea that we are "important" in the universe, and the apple of some deities eye.
When one accepts the fact that we are merely another part of the carbon-based life form on the tree of life which has cooked up on this planet in the last 3 billion years, one realizes that an afterlife is merely wishful thinking born out of our primitive, ignorant, superstitious past. When you die, it will likely be exactly like it was before you were born. Remember that?
So enjoy this brief puff of consciousness that you have, it's the only one you get.
All animals have a "personality". How could we not have different personalities? There's nothing magic here, it's good old brain activity.
crazyheart
star stuff, your post (
Posted on: 02/02/2009 10:29
star stuff, your post ( although I disagree,) depresses me. Why are we even here then, if there is nothing after this short span on earth?
Beloved
Greetings! I think our
Posted on: 02/02/2009 11:43
Greetings!
I think our soul, spirit, spiritual part of us is the part of us that will live with God in eternity. I think it includes that part of us that we call "personality" - or part of the essence of who we are.
Hope, peace, joy, love . . .
Star Stuff
crazyheart wrote:star stuff,
Posted on: 02/02/2009 13:21
Perhaps the problem lays in asking the question "why". When one asks "why", one assumes that there is indeed a "reason" or "meaning" behind it all. This, as I've suggested, is a function of the ego. The thought that we are somehow special in the universe is a delusion.
"Men have had the vanity to pretend that the whole universe was made for them, whilst in reality the whole universe does not suspect their existence." (Camille Flammarion)
"We are here because one odd group of fishes had a peculiar fin anatomy that could transform into legs for terrestrial creatures; because the earth never froze entirely during an ice age; because a small and tenuous species, arising in Africa a quarter of a million years ago, has managed, so far, to survive by hook and by crook. We may yearn for a 'higher' answer, but none exists." (Stephen Jay Gould)
Please explain why you require an afterlife in order for this life to have meaning. For me, the fact that this life is temporary, makes it all the more meaningful.
Pilgrim
Crazyheart, You do not have
Posted on: 02/03/2009 02:26
Crazyheart, You do not have to let StarStuffs beliefs affect you. Just because he has different beliefs than you does not invalidate your beliefs. Yours are just as true for you as his are for him. And his are just as true for him as mine are for me.
People have asked the questions "Why are we here?" & "Where do we go when we die?" for thousands of years. Many mystics have found the answers to these questions, however they are unable to explain it in language that people who have not had their experiences, can understand. Reality is far, far more complicated than what our five senses would indicate, which phyicists are now beginning to realize. 100 years from now people will look back at now and consider this the dark ages.
Star Stuff
Pilgrim wrote:Crazyheart, You
Posted on: 02/03/2009 03:26
Firstly, I don't have any "beliefs" as one does with faith.
Of course she doesn't have to let my comments affect her, but what if they actually affected her in a positive way? Should she also not let them affect her in that case? How are you to know that any affect of what I might say would be positive or negative?
Should we all stick our heads in the sand until we hear viewpoints that agree with what we already believe? I know that the very few people who said things to me a long time ago which played a role in causing me to snap out of the delusion of christianity was, in retrospect, a great thing.
Absolute nonsense. If I believe that there are unicorns, is that "true for me"? No, it is not true no matter how much I want it to be so. This is not the approach we take in any other area of knowing, so why does it apply here? No rational person is "agnostic" about the existence of unicorns, leprechauns, dragons, gnomes, etc. Why is the god concept granted a special status?
See: relativist fallacy:
http://www.answers.com/topic/relativist-fallacy?method=26&initiator=FFANS
Really?!?! Who? Why are they being so secretive?
Couldn't they at least try? Or is it not possible or probable that they have merely had an emotional experience, a function of brain activity, and nothing more?
You're probably right, but as we have been shown over time (and through the hard work of science) that everything unknown that was attributed to the supernatural, has been, and continues to be explained in naturalistic terms, isn't it reasonable that this trend of discovery will continue? Do you really feel that all of the religious/supernatural explanations which have been painted into such a tiny corner will one day be heralded as correct after all? I don't think so. You would need to display that certain things cannot and will not be explained by science, and this is where you run into an absolute buzz-saw.
crazyheart
Star Stuff posts: "The
Posted on: 02/03/2009 11:25
Star Stuff posts:
"The thought that we are somehow special in the universe is a delusion."
This is not a delusion to me. I am a Child of God surrounded by other Children of God and we are loved.
Atheisto
crazyheart wrote: Star Stuff
Posted on: 02/03/2009 11:39
Star Stuff posts:
"The thought that we are somehow special in the universe is a delusion."
This is not a delusion to me. I am a Child of God surrounded by other Children of God and we are loved.
If you went to certain parts of the Middle East you might be surrounded by children of Allah who would like nothing more than to disembowel you. In India you might be surrounded by children of Ganesh or something....somewhere else maybe Buddah....or perhaps atheists. Not so long ago in certain parts of the world you'd be surrounded by little pygmies who would quite happily eat you. Would your god supply the seasoning?
Oh....and for an above post...these mystics....would the modern day equivalent be David Blaine? Just asking because the man is an ass and I wouldn't listen to anything he had to say.
crazyheart
Atheisto, don't be so jaded.
Posted on: 02/03/2009 12:36
Atheisto, don't be so jaded. God is God of us all - no matter what name he is given.
Atheisto
crazyheart wrote: Atheisto,
Posted on: 02/03/2009 12:38
Atheisto, don't be so jaded. God is God of us all - no matter what name he is given.
So you are Allah's child too?
crazyheart
I guess so, if God is Allah
Posted on: 02/03/2009 13:31
I guess so, if God is Allah and Allah is God.
Atheisto
and Ganesh?
Posted on: 02/03/2009 13:33
and Ganesh?
Star Stuff
crazyheart wrote:This is not
Posted on: 02/03/2009 13:39
Do you think it's possible that what you are actually enjoying is group solidarity; that sense of belonging and community which is such a powerful draw to us social creatures?
Do you suspect that others who belong to other, opposing faiths get the same sort of "feeling" that you do? Do you suspect that it is having common goals/purposes/values/ beliefs is what you are actually enjoying? Add to the mix, singing songs together and three-bean salad and wow - who could resist?!
Birthstone
quite possibly that is what
Posted on: 02/03/2009 16:33
quite possibly that is what we're enjoying, but the name we give to that connection is God- now - maybe that sounds like I'm reaching...
who knows. There is a connection between living creatures who come together in respect & love & an attempt to make the world a better place. It can be quite powerful, it can be quite uplifting, or bring us to tears as it lays clear what has been missed. The vision of people coming together for good, in the name of that goodness, is inspiring to reach for more, in an intergenerational way that no Rotary club or Boy Scouts has been able to replicate. Churches don't get it right all the time but when it happens, and it is not excluding other people (yes it happens sometimes!!!!) - that is God - that is Spirit.
I'm adding this comment - when church excludes people, or demands belief in doctrines, it is likely that as many people are leaving/jaded, as are finding support. That is not what I count as an effective church.
Birthstone
Atheisto wrote: and
Posted on: 02/03/2009 16:32
and Ganesh?
Don't forget Atheisto, that we (Crazy & I, and Pinga and a bunch of others) will suggest that Ganesh & Allah & God are experiences & names that people have come up with to describe something bigger than any one of those 'gods'. We don't feel we have the answers already (as in, my God is Ganesh as described in Hindu texts) - we feel we have some places to start from in our exploration.
Don't be too small & boxed in, now Atheisto, or we're arguing apples & cosmic oranges
Kappa
I haven't had time yet to
Posted on: 02/03/2009 16:48
I haven't had time yet to read what everyone has written, but to me the question of "where" personality goes, seems a bit illogical. It's a bit like asking someone what colour the sound of an orchestra is. An even better analogy would be to ask where your breathing goes when you die. It just stops. In life, it is a continuous process, when you die it ceases.
I guess my experience with personality is that it comes down to a wide variety of beliefs, behaviours and life experiences that is always in flux while you are alive. When you are not alive, that is over. Calling these things "personality" is just giving it a convenient name, but personality exists as much within our interactions with others as within ourselves. If other people were not around, would we have a personality? I think not. So I don't think we have a personality after we die.
Oddly enough, I still don't think of this as the death of the soul or of afterlife. I will have to think more on this and read the rest of the thread.
crazyheart
Birthstone wrote: Atheisto
Posted on: 02/03/2009 17:37
and Ganesh?
Don't forget Atheisto, that we (Crazy & I, and Pinga and a bunch of others) will suggest that Ganesh & Allah & God are experiences & names that people have come up with to describe something bigger than any one of those 'gods'. We don't feel we have the answers already (as in, my God is Ganesh as described in Hindu texts) - we feel we have some places to start from in our exploration.
Don't be too small & boxed in, now Atheisto, or we're arguing apples & cosmic oranges
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Thank you Birthstone. from our mouths to God's ears.
crazyheart
kappa, thank you for your
Posted on: 02/03/2009 17:38
kappa, thank you for your post and for being open minded enough to keep searching for more answers.
Atheisto
Birthstone wrote: Atheisto
Posted on: 02/03/2009 21:24
and Ganesh?
Don't forget Atheisto, that we (Crazy & I, and Pinga and a bunch of others) will suggest that Ganesh & Allah & God are experiences & names that people have come up with to describe something bigger than any one of those 'gods'. We don't feel we have the answers already (as in, my God is Ganesh as described in Hindu texts) - we feel we have some places to start from in our exploration.
Don't be too small & boxed in, now Atheisto, or we're arguing apples & cosmic oranges
Have you ever thought that what you call god, allah, ganesh etc is what we atheists call life?
Arminius
Hi Atheisto: So you are a
Posted on: 02/03/2009 21:41
Hi Atheisto: So you are a spiritual atheist after all. I knew it!
Next things you'll tell me to drop the "spiritual." Just "atheist" will do.
Fine by me, Atheisto.
Atheisto
There's nothing spiritual
Posted on: 02/03/2009 21:50
There's nothing spiritual about life to me. It just is, it does amaze me at times but not supernaturally. I'm happy to have an idea about how most things work.
Ergo Ratio
Your personality is not a
Posted on: 02/04/2009 03:31
Your personality is not a "thing", but a continuous process that shapes and is shaped by your relationships/interactions with everything and everyone else in the world (to varying degrees, of course). It may be seeded--no pun intended--by your genes, of course, but your genes merely seed the initial conditions and set constraints (some hard, some soft) upon how your personality can change/grow throughout your life.
Your personality does not have a definite boundary; it may originate from your body and your mind, but it can also be found in the works that you perform or in the friendships you foster. When you die, the drip-dip-drop in your pond of personality stops, but the ripples remain, and surface in whomever you influenced in life. Your pond eventually settles, with time, your ripples lost/found in the sea of humanity.
Arminius
Hi Atheisto: I don't believe
Posted on: 02/04/2009 03:35
Hi Atheisto: I don't believe in the supernatural. For me, the natural is spiritual, or supernal.
InannaWhimsey
CH, I don't know aboot you,
Posted on: 02/04/2009 03:50
CH,
I don't know aboot you, but I think we all end up at Las Vegas where we all get to strutt our stuff as SHOW GIRLS!!!
Glitter alla way,
Inannawhimsey
ps. Either that, or the "Foreign Section" in G_d's Blockbuster movies...
Birthstone
Atheisto wrote: Birthstone
Posted on: 02/04/2009 07:52
and Ganesh?
Don't forget Atheisto, that we (Crazy & I, and Pinga and a bunch of others) will suggest that Ganesh & Allah & God are experiences & names that people have come up with to describe something bigger than any one of those 'gods'. We don't feel we have the answers already (as in, my God is Ganesh as described in Hindu texts) - we feel we have some places to start from in our exploration.
Don't be too small & boxed in, now Atheisto, or we're arguing apples & cosmic oranges
Have you ever thought that what you call god, allah, ganesh etc is what we atheists call life?
All the time actually. Your comment to Arminius about the spiritual nature of life is where it differs. I am starting to think that the subtle differences that lead us to spirit or to factual ordering of things is simply along the lines of personality differences - I'm thinking Myers Briggs S or N, T or F, P or J in particular. So then it isn't right or wrong to respond to life in a spiritual way or not - simply how our brains order information.
Are we off topic again? I don't give two hoots to what happens after I die. Hell on earth is what I try to alleviate for me & everyone else all the time.
Elanorgold
Ergo: I like how you put it.
Posted on: 02/07/2009 19:52
Ergo: I like how you put it. You and I see eye to eye.
Arminius: I like the hologram idea too. I read that black holes can possibly record the information of all the things that fall into them, perhaps there could be some imprint of us folded away in the higher dimentions of space too. Maybe. With multiple universes, anything's possible. That does sound kindof supernatural though doesn't it! To think of personalities being plucked out of the ether to manifest once more! Sounds very Doctor Who!
Arminius
Not really supernatural,
Posted on: 02/07/2009 20:13
Not really supernatural, Elanorgold, just a different manifestation eternal cosmic energy.
If by "natural" you mean "biological" or "physical," however, then, yes, it would be beyond that plane, and "supernatural" in that sense. But it would still be a manifestation of cosmic energy.
After all, there is only one energy. IT is a singularity.
"The lamps are different, but the light is the same."
-Rumi
bygraceiam
Hello everyone....God
Posted on: 02/07/2009 20:22
Hello everyone....God bless you....
atheisto....I too believe as crazyheart...that God is in each one of us...and that sooner or later it will be revealed one way or the other....just my thougths.....
I dont believe we have to believe in an afterlife in order to live life here..but I do believe that what we learn here will be retained in our souls, minds, hearts and spirit and will pass over with us at the end of our journey here...this makes it really exiciting to think about...just how God will use all that He has taught me not only here ...but in the place to come....
IJL:bg
LumbyLad
You can read a book to find
Posted on: 02/07/2009 20:24
You can read a book to find out how the personality is formed. Basically we are born with some propensities that are inherited and otherwise, we are moulded by the effect of the teachings of our world. Personality is not a THING, but a pattern of dealing with the world around. When we die there is no evidence that this goes anywhere, and why should it?
Even if I were to choose to believe in some form of life after death, I would never want my personality to come along. By the time I am old and worn out, I will welcome a good rest. Personality requires memory to keep it going, and I don't believe when I die my brain keeps my memory going. As for Arminius' idea, it is always possible, but I surely hope not. I have not desire to live in any "heaven" or paradise. I would be bored. IF there were a spiritual world, I rather doubt that spirits have individual personalities like the "angels" that people believe in. I do believe, however, in ghosts, and people who "hang around to do unfinished business" as part spirits. This indicates that even after death there MAY be intension left and some kind of personality. I am open to the consideration, but I don't count on it.
Arminius
I'm going to haunt you for
Posted on: 02/07/2009 20:31
I'm going to haunt you for this, LumbyLad!
Star Stuff
I like this, from Richard
Posted on: 02/07/2009 20:33
I like this, from Richard Dawkins:
We are going to die and that makes us the lucky ones. Most people are never going to die because they're never going to be born. The potential people who could have been here in my place, but who will, in fact, never see the light of day, outnumber the sand grains of Sahara. ...In the face of these stupefying odds, it is you and I, in our ordinariness, that are here. Here's another respect in which we are lucky. The universe is older than a hundred million centuries. Within a comparable time, the sun will swell to a red giant and engulf the earth.
You are lucky to be alive and so am I. We are lucky to be alive and therefore we should value life. Life is precious. We're never going to get another one. This is it. Don't waste it. Open your eyes. Open your ears. Treasure the experiences that you have and don't waste your time fussing about a non-existent future life after you're dead. Try to do as much good as you can now to others. Try to live life as richly as possible during the time that you have left available to you.
crazyheart
Try to do as much good as you
Posted on: 02/07/2009 20:38
Try to do as much good as you can now to others. Try to live life as richly as possible during the time that you have left available to you.
Finally, Star Stuff, something I can agree with. Are we converting you?
Arminius
No, crazyheart, Star Stuff is
Posted on: 02/07/2009 20:45
No, crazyheart, Star Stuff is converting us!
spockis53
In our community,
Posted on: 02/07/2009 23:18
In our community, personalities are recycled with mulch.
Freundly-Giant
I think that we are each born
Posted on: 02/07/2009 23:47
I think that we are each born with a unique personality, and influences such as pop culture and peer groups twist that personality into something darker. I believe in heaven, our "basic" personalities will be revived, and God and love will be the influences.
Btw, birthstone, you're so deep, you're like the grand canyon. of spiritual knowledge.
Star Stuff
Freundly-Giant wrote:I think
Posted on: 02/08/2009 00:25
Yes. So are dogs & cats. Why do you think we are different and unique from the other carbon-based life forms on this planet? Why do you insist that we are the apple of some deity's eye?
Why darker? That seems pessimistic. The simple explanation is that we are shaped by the environment that we grow up in.
What heaven? That's a wild, fantastical belief you have. Why do you hold that belief? Is it possible that you picked it up from your upbringing or environment?
If, in your dream-based heaven scenerio, a god of some sort is influencing our personalities, how exactly does that work? Does he force it upon you? Do you have free will in this claimed heaven? If so, how different is that from life here on earth? Is it the same heaven that Muslims believe they are going to to meet the same Abrahamic god? Will you get 72 virgins too - or is that just for the Muslims?
I'd really like to hear the reasons for your beliefs.