I found this a daunting question when I came out of high school. And I find myself looking at this idea again now.
So tell me, how did you choose? Was it your passion, or was it something you thought would just do. Was it a head or heart decision? Was it a sacrifice for you? Do you like your job now?
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somegalfromcan
I don't think I chose
Posted on: 08/28/2010 01:36
I don't think I chose my career as much as it chose me - and I am so glad it has really worked out for me.
I never thought I could handle working with people with special needs but then my minister introduced me to a family in my congregation whose infant daughter was severely disabled. She asked if I would be interested in volunteering with them so that they might have a few hours break once a week. I wasn't sure I could do it - I had no idea how to handle a child with such severe medical needs - so I said I would meet with the family and try it out. I instantly fell in love with the child! Nine years later, I am still working with that family - but now I get paid for it. I technically have two jobs, since I work for two different agencies, but I consider it to be one job with two separate pay cheques. One of those agencies is the government and the other is a wonderful charitable christian organization who treat their clients and employees like gold. This organization is not run by any particular church, however it's values are very much inline with the United Church - it's extremely liberal and will help anyone who needs it. I couldn't be happier with my work life! As I say to anyone who asks about my job - I get paid to go to the beach!
Balkirk
I'm excited about being in
Posted on: 08/28/2010 03:17
I'm excited about being in school for the 4th and final time, well maybe. I've looked back and I have concluded that I've been apprenticing for this career that I'm about to learn. I have had all the practical experience now I just need the theory. Before I even attempted it, I knelt before God and said"If it's meant to be my calling(career) it will be easy." And so far it's been very easy and he's been giving me extras. I'm looking forward to the career that's ahead of me.
MC jae
Elanorgold wrote: So tell me,
Posted on: 08/28/2010 05:17
So tell me, how did you choose? Was it your passion, or was it something you thought would just do. Was it a head or heart decision? Was it a sacrifice for you? Do you like your job now?
"Choose"?
Well... the manager at a cafeteria here in Toronto needed someone to help the kitchen staff with catering at Christmastime. She and I used to go to the same church. She called the Pastor who was out of work and might want a temporary job, and he suggested me. She called and asked if I would help out just for a few days. I agreed. That led to a part-time job. Then the cashier there got pregnant and after she went on leave and had her baby she decided not to return to work, so I got her full-time job. I've now worked for the same company for 6 1/2 years.
I do like my job now. I work with a good group of people, and serving the customers is fun. I really feel blessed to be there at this time.
BethAnne
I love to read so library
Posted on: 08/28/2010 12:02
I love to read so library work was the only career that I could find where I got paid to spend time reading...I also prefer small towns so that is where I work...that said, I never would have chosen this particular public library - I only agreed to come in two days to train their new staff member as a favour to a friend - life happened and I ended up with the job and have been here 12 years now!
Also, because I was here in this job, I was in the ideal place when the local newspaper owner had to quit 8.5 years ago...I'd helped out occasionally when she was swamped and so I guess I was the first person she thought of when she had to retire...while owning/editiing an independent rural newspaper is not something I ever aspired too, it is the perfect career for me and complements my libary career and life wonderfully.
It really does make life easier when you do what you love.
BethAnne
I love to read so library
Posted on: 08/28/2010 12:11
I love to read so library work was the only career that I could find where I got paid to spend time reading...I also prefer small towns so that is where I work...that said, I never would have chosen this particular public library - I only agreed to come in two days to train their new staff member as a favour to a friend - life happened and I ended up with the job and have been here 12 years now!
Also, because I was here in this job, I was in the ideal place when the local newspaper owner had to quit 8.5 years ago...I'd helped out occasionally when she was swamped and so I guess I was the first person she thought of when she had to retire...while owning/editiing an independent rural newspaper is not something I ever aspired too, it is the perfect career for me and complements my libary career and life wonderfully.
It really does make life easier when you do what you love.
chansen
My father was in
Posted on: 08/28/2010 12:21
My father was in construction. I spent a lot of time on job sites, and with no artistic skillz for architecture, but a pretty decent feel for math, I always leaned toward engineering. I bounced around jobs for a while, working in construction management, design, and I even opened my own custom software company for a while, before finding this job as a design engineer.
My wife is a biomaterials engineer, and far more talented than I am. She was a poster-child for attracting more girls towards science and engineering, as the faculty used to invite her to panel discussions on the subect and to talk to high school girls. I don't think most of my engineering department faculty even knew who I was.
Mendalla
BethAnne wrote: I love to
Posted on: 08/28/2010 12:20
I love to read so library work was the only career that I could find where I got paid to spend time reading...I also prefer small towns so that is where I work...that said, I never would have chosen this particular public library - I only agreed to come in two days to train their new staff member as a favour to a friend - life happened and I ended up with the job and have been here 12 years now!
I started out as a librarian for much the same reasons. I was based in Hamilton, although I was working for the Wentworth Libraries which then managed the libraries for the smaller municipalities around Hamilton. That all went away with municipal amalgamation and all "my" libraries are now part of Hamilton Public Library. I left a year before amalgamation got underway. In my position I was responsible for the automated library system and other library computer systems and I leveraged that background to jump to IT management. It was a necessary move to get into the same community as my wife. I'm now in the private sector managing IT for a health care company. So I chose my first career out of interest, but the second was more or less chosen out of necessity.
Mendalla
chansen
Mendalla wrote: I started out
Posted on: 08/28/2010 12:23
I started out as a librarian for much the same reasons. I was based in Hamilton, although I was working for the Wentworth Libraries which then managed the libraries for the smaller municipalities around Hamilton. That all went away with municipal amalgamation and all "my" libraries are now part of Hamilton Public Library. I left a year before amalgamation got underway.
Small world. I used to visit Hamilton libraries often, mostly the downtown library on Saturdays when we went to the market, and the Sherman and Terryberry libraries on the "mountain". I used to read a lot as a kid. Not so much any more.
Jadespring
Hmm, good questions.
Posted on: 08/28/2010 13:47
Hmm, good questions. Made me sit back and think. I've done lots of schooling and had several 'jobs' that had opportunities to lead into a career. Schooling I did for passion and followed my heart well as a couple of the jobs whereas other jobs were more by necessity or chance.
Then life happens, as it does, and choices were made (heart and passion choices) and a proper 'career' opportunities fell by the way side though at least one or two remain open if it becomes absolutely necessary. Upon pondering the questions I realize that I don't actually have or even desire at this point to have a 'career' at least not how it's traditionally defined as something separate from other parts of my life. If anything my whole life is a career. I work, sometimes for money and sometimes not, I create, I do things, I live but don't have one defined 'job'.
Now I'm pondering whether that's a good thing or a bad thing. :D
Mendalla
chansen wrote: Mendalla
Posted on: 08/28/2010 13:57
I started out as a librarian for much the same reasons. I was based in Hamilton, although I was working for the Wentworth Libraries which then managed the libraries for the smaller municipalities around Hamilton. That all went away with municipal amalgamation and all "my" libraries are now part of Hamilton Public Library. I left a year before amalgamation got underway.
Small world. I used to visit Hamilton libraries often, mostly the downtown library on Saturdays when we went to the market, and the Sherman and Terryberry libraries on the "mountain". I used to read a lot as a kid. Not so much any more.
Trying to get back into reading more myself. It's one of those hobbies that kind of slips away as we get busy with family and career. I lived downtown when I was in Hamilton so mostly patronized the main library when I did use HPL. However, working for a library meant that if we had something I wanted, I could just put a hold on it and have it sent in to me at the head office (we didn't have a main branch like Hamilton did).
Mendalla
MikePaterson
Being otherwise
Posted on: 08/28/2010 15:06
Being otherwise unemployable, I became a journalist and writer.
graeme
It was pure
Posted on: 08/28/2010 17:55
It was pure happenstance.
I was an office boy who never finished high school. I volunteered to work with a group of kids on Saturdays at the Y. After a year, the Y offered my sixy dollars a month in a programme in which I iwould work for the Y while going to university. Sir George Williams College of Montreal, in those days a real teaching institution, decided to give me a chance.
After two years of getting fascinated with worlking with gangs, etc, and skipping a lot of classes, I learned I could also make 25 a day as a supply teacher. My grades were poor. But I could get into teacher's college for nothing in those days, even with two y ears of bad grades. So I did it, became an elementary teacher after a year.
Went to Sir George at night to finish my BA. Terrible grades. But that got me to teach high school. Loved it as much as I loved elementary school teaching.
Suddenly wanted to go on to an MA. Nobody would give me a reference. A McGill professor was insulting, and said my record was beneath contempt.
So I did a summer course at Acadia in NS. Studied for the first time in my life. Got an A. Next summer - got another A. Asked if I could do a master's. They said do a whole undergrad year first.
Quit my job - with almost no money. Found a room in rural NS for five dollars a week. Studied. Got straight As. Then did an MA. Straight As. Thought I could do PhD, maybe. It had never entered my mind until this time (I was 32). Did a PhD at Queen's.
Taught university. hated universities. Loved the teaching.
Was invited to speak somewhere. Gave a speech with a catchy title. A CBC producer was there, invited me to an interview show. That led to almost thirty years of radio, TV, movie consulting, wirting for the popular market, columns, etc.
Pure luck.
carolla
My mom suggested it ... she
Posted on: 08/28/2010 18:18
My mom suggested it ... she was volunteering at a children's treatment centre and was herself impressed by what the occupational therapists did, as well as the people they were & she thought it might be an interesting option for me. I visited the centre, met the OTs, did more research since I'd never heard of this profession & decided that was what I wanted to pursue. And so ... that's what I've been practicing for the last 34 years! Thanks mom!
There have been numerous approaches to move into management positions, but I truly LOVE my clinical work, so that is where I have remained. It's been a wonderful career - lots of diversity and evolution of practice within that time frame.
Diana
I had a useless BA and no
Posted on: 08/28/2010 19:55
I had a useless BA and no idea what I wanted to do with my life. My parents said why not get your teaching degree - it only takes a year. I thought, what the heck. The first day of my practicum I loved it. As the practicum went on I realized I had a special affinity for the struggling learners, and managed to negotiate part of my practicum in the resource room. I've pretty much worked in one ever since. Even tho' I never planned on it, it's become my vocation. i'm pretty lucky.
Elanorgold
Graeme, wow, you sure
Posted on: 09/01/2010 23:15
Graeme, wow, you sure persevered, some luck, but a lot of determination and hard work. Maybe that insult at McGill propelled you.
Mike, I like that. We know an artist around here who says the same.
Jadespring, your story sounds like mine. Except I didn't get much schooling.
Everyone else, it seems to have happened fairly smoothly for you. If I had stayed in that job that was handed to me, something similar may have happened to me. But I don't know what that would have done to me. That job was against my (then) nature and driving me insane. Since leaving it, I've had many wonderful experiences, and very hard times too. Quite the bouquet, my own bouquet. And I have learned a lot.
Keep the stories coming! I find it excellent info. : )
Elanorgold
Diana, I think that was a
Posted on: 08/28/2010 20:38
Diana, I think that was a wise move on your part, taking that teaching degree. I, and other young people I'm sure, put too much importance on which thing we choose, making it a once in a lifetime choice that will define the rest of our life. It was a scarey proposition! "What the heck", is a great attitude, especially if your parents are footing the bill.
My mom suggested modeling to me, and I said OK to that. It was kinda fun, but a hollow wish. It didn't go anywhere. Waste of money.
FishingDude
Well, for the most part, I've
Posted on: 08/28/2010 21:53
Well, for the most part, I've been doomed until now with just jobs. Not sure about the future. Hopefully its bright and I can wear shades!
My father is a carpenter by trade. Both my brothers are self employed contractors. I'm the only union worker. I've worked in two so far. They hate unions.
I like learning trades related things. Plumbing,electrical.
High school dropout because I went down east and hated the school. Finished up in adult night classes. Bounced around on my own and living with friends, relatives and such. Drank and partied between the ages of 18 and 24. Worked lots of dead end jobs, so I have lots of experience!
Went to college for two years at seneca in Enviornmental Landscape Management. Fancier term for the title of parks worker in a municipality now. But the pay is good and has benefits. I work 5 minutes drive practically from home.
Been a seasonal worker outside mostly, but I was getting good experience as a maintenance worker at a convention center. I was sort of the go to guy of the building and had experience with the facility. I had to even bring my own tools because they had none of the right ones I needed. That was where they called me "Houseman" because I was everybody's golden boy in a way! its a term they use in hotels. Too many late nights, I was going nuts with the workload of a private business. I met the PM there during his campaign rally. What a day!
I'm full time dad so thats busy enough with a job.
MistsOfSpring
I believe in triangulation to
Posted on: 08/28/2010 22:55
I believe in triangulation to find the best possible career: what do you love to do, what are your strengths and what kind of life do you want to live? Where those three answers cross, you have a few careers that match you pretty well. From there, just look at what is necessary to get that career and how open the field is to decide.
I became a teacher because I enjoy telling stories, being creative, hanging out with kids, helping people to reach their potential, etc. I'm a pretty good communicator most of the time and I seem to have a knack for coming up with cool projects. I wanted a fairly stable life; I wasn't willing to put in 80 hour weeks to get to the top of a company and be rich. I wanted something secure that paid fairly well so that I could have a home and raise a family. Within my "triangulation zone" I could have found myself creating educational resources, writing kid or teen novels, being an artist, working in a museum, art gallery or science centre or being a career counsellor, but teaching was the best match for my skills, interests and desired lifestyle.
jlin
As many of you above, I did
Posted on: 08/28/2010 23:07
As many of you above, I did not chosen mine own career. joblessness, namelessness, careerlessness all chosen mineself. As one said, "well, though, why NOT you." verily, why then not? Waste of brains, though.
I do get to work at a menial labour position which is exploitive and for a company which is well known to underpay women and keep them out of management positions. As to the above statement, "well, why not you?" Ah, verily, why then not? The questions I most hate being asked are, "Why are YOU here?" and then the person wants a real not fake answer. And when I tell it, it's like sigh sigh sigh sigh sigh. well, yes., sigh waste of brains though, and we answer yet again, "why Not you.?' I mean, they fish out all the fish, develop wilderness into factories and suburbs, who will miss a few brains . . .
Diana
Elanorgold wrote: Diana,
Posted on: 08/28/2010 23:02
Diana, I think that was a wise move on your part, taking that teaching degree. I, and other young people I'm sure, put too much importance on which thing we choose, making it a once in a lifetime choice that will define the rest of our life. It was a scarey proposition! "What the heck", is a great attitude, especially if your parents are footing the bill.
Actually, I would never allow my parents to pay for my education.....I was determined to do it all myself. Kind of dumb, in retrospect. Oh well, the loans are all paid off now! And just for the record, while teaching worked out beautifully for me, throughout my young adulthood I took time away from university and tried a few different jobs, any of which I guess could have grown into a career. I hated them all, and one thing I learned about myself was that I had to do work that I found personally meaningful or I would be permanently dissatisfied. I would agree that, career-wise, it's probably best not to put all your eggs into one basket, until you've learned enough about yourself and the world of work to know what is most likely to make you happy.
Elanorgold
Good points Diana. jlin,
Posted on: 08/29/2010 13:29
Good points Diana.
jlin, perhaps a new career for you too, or you could do something with your brains on the side for now. I once worked in a box factory, doing a certain two folds over and over all day. I got that question there, "What are YOU doing here?" It was an educational, and thankfully brief, time.
FishingDude, so you're no longer working for parks? Yes, doitall guys can get overwhealmed. I've seen it.
somegirl
I don't have a career, I have
Posted on: 08/29/2010 14:41
I don't have a career, I have a job. It pays the rent (and more importantly the student loan), the people I work with are good, I'm good at it and best of all, starting next year, I have 4 weeks a year that I don't have to do it. It isn't anywhere near what I was educated to do, due to there being a glut of chemists in the market due to a plant closure when I was unemployed. I found that learning something and doing something are two very different things anyway. Learning chemistry was great, doing it was very boring. My job now allows me to do a bunch of different things in a day and I have a fair amount of control over what I do and when. I listen to my MP3 player while I work most of the day, so I feed my passion for music and the other things I love I do in my spare time. I really enjoy solving problems and I get to do that sometimes. Most of all I love having a roof over my family's head, food in our bellies and medicine and dental work when we need it and it does that pretty well.
Elanorgold
I used to listen to my
Posted on: 08/29/2010 16:12
I used to listen to my walkman a lot when I worked in the tech factory job that I hated for 2 years. I was an assembler, which in itself isn't bad, but it was damn monotonous, no fresh air, no daylight, and I hated what the product stood for (at the time). I drew and wrote on the sly, sang (I was alone a lot), and lived for my breaks which I stretched out as long as possible.
I do love the freedom of my self employment. It's the stress and uncertainty I can't handle. I'm afraid it's going to put me in an early grave.
The prospect of a student loan is a daunting one.
jlin
Well, it may seem like a bit
Posted on: 08/30/2010 01:17
Well, it may seem like a bit of trivia to you. but working in the dumb dum place where I work with a bunch of people who aren't necessarily dum dum but a lot of middle management who are bored, uneducated and dum dum, I have finanlly figured out the kitchen psychology of sadomasochism. It is a theory branched off from the service industry ( I come from white collar and farmers - so this was all news to me) which establishes, instead of education a psychology of sexualized bullying using the outmoded form of rape used commonly in the fraternities in the 50's and 60's. An individual is singled out to be both bullied and 'sexualized" by a boss in order to prove th bosses superiority, In fact, this person intimidates th boss but the game is to create an environment to attempt to make this person seem vulnerable and is labled "masochist" or lazy or in some way incorrect and needing to be 'punished' .
overlayed in Canada are the hockey teams who do still use the forms of gang rape used by the fraternites in the 50's and 60's using, generally, a first nations girl or some other girl at risk.
I learned all about this in a factual, clear and logical way, much as an anthropologist must try to understand a tribe that is unrelated to one's own projections. It has taken me 5 years to understand it in such a clear way that I can actually teach about it and it makes sense to everyone. In one instance, I stood in the way of a bully victim and became the new victim. I don't get victimized easily, though, because I just talk about the politics going down and never shut up and eventually, only a couple of the bosses are committed to the bullying which blows out the system.
As for the overlay of interest from the social elite which really used to frustrate me but that was because I still believed in the validity of the trickle down effect. Now, that I understand that anyone acting in isolation from democratic method be it the isolation of the uneducated or the isolattion of an elite educated or elite social class forms a kind of sexual aggression and or obsession/disease because it no longer contributes to society or is of the community in a real day to day dialogue of give and take, is entranced by a rule oriented atmosphere surrounding sadomasochistic psychological theory. Thus, were the administrators at UBC not so appalled -- as they should have been -- at the sexual abuses of Dr. Tyhurst, who, head of the psychology department for a number of years was subsequently charged with sexual and sadistic abuse of clients. Further comments were in the vein of "well, he had seen his father murdered", which does not excuse any kind of behaviour and misses the point exactly. Oh, how academia wants to pretend it's above the law and they believe it because they are so isolated from community. how odd. and yet, professors have the highest divorce rates, etc. which just shows how easily they get into power games . . . just the perfect group of people to sell power manipulative services S&M to.
I don't know if I would have understood this and even more about it if I had not had this experience and it is far more imporant an aspect in our society with regard to feminism and social equality than most people want to either think about or talk about.
it's just a form of social rape.
myst
I think I considered becoming
Posted on: 08/30/2010 23:59
I think I considered becoming a teacher from a young age. I also have some recollection of my mother encouraging me to pursue that field – I’m not sure whose idea it was first. While I was doing my undergrad (in psychology and music) teaching jobs were hard to come by in Ontario and it seemed a bit pointless to do a B.Ed then, so I continued on with a graduate degree. By the time I finished that degree they were hiring lots of new teachers in the Toronto area so I decided to do a B.Ed. I loved classroom teaching (elementary), but also had an interest in connecting with children on another level and some years later ended up doing a grad degree in Counselling Psychology and became an elementary school counsellor. I loved that role too. I am currently not able to work at the job I love due to some health challenges, but feel that I had/have completely nailed it for choosing a fitting career.
BethAnne
Elanorgold wrote: I do love
Posted on: 08/31/2010 10:25
I do love the freedom of my self employment. It's the stress and uncertainty I can't handle. I'm afraid it's going to put me in an early grave.
With the newspaper I have the freedom of self employment, and I work part-time in a public library which gives me a bit of security against the uncertainty of the other.
Judd
I drank my way out of college
Posted on: 08/31/2010 11:34
I drank my way out of college and took jobs in the construction camps up north. They were high paying.
As I had no family, few qualifications, and hated being unemployed for lengthy job searches. I got a job in my present specialty 38 years ago. I heat treat steel weldments using furnaces or electric heating systems.
kaythecurler
I don't have a career - never
Posted on: 08/31/2010 15:14
I don't have a career - never have had one. I was raised knowing that as soon as I was old enough I was to get a job and help support the family. So I did that. Low paying jobs in a wide variety until I married and stayed home raising kids (who were encouraged to follow their dreams).
qwerty
Hey what an interesting
Posted on: 08/31/2010 15:46
Hey what an interesting thread! I'm just making this comment now so I can track the thread and come back and read all the entries. I hope I'll be able to post something too.
Elanorgold
Thanks Beth-Anne. I plan to
Posted on: 09/01/2010 23:11
Thanks Beth-Anne. I plan to get myself a little job to supplement things and provide some security.
Judd
A quote to my sister (who had
Posted on: 09/01/2010 09:21
A quote to my sister (who had a Masters Degree(
It's tough when you reach middle age and still wonder what you'll do when you grow up.
She commisserated.
Katschen
I went to library school and
Posted on: 09/01/2010 17:46
I went to library school and am now employed in the so-called "IM field." I thought it was a labour of love...I am hoping to take a bit of time off to recapture that feeling. ...
DaisyJane
This is an interesting thread
Posted on: 09/03/2010 12:01
This is an interesting thread for me considering where I am in life. I entered the OT program at U of T right out of high school at the age of 18. I knew I was interested in working with people with disabilities. I went on to do a Masters degree and a few years later started a Ph.D. I loved the ideas of OT but was less enamoured by clinical practice. My clinlcal line of work often included an assembly line of handing out bath bars and bath seats to allow seniors to stay in their homes. Meaningful? Very! But I found it mind-numbing and exhausting after a while...hence the move to academia.I loved the ideas and research. I am actually envious of Carolla who loves clinical practice.
I left the Ph.D. program in my second year after Matthew become quite ill. I have bounced around odd contract jobs, primarily teaching at community college and sometimes university, but formally left the profession a few years ago. It was clear that at least for a while the only place I was going to be was at home with Matthew and my other two boys. His care become quite complex.
And now I don't know what to do with my life (scary at 42). We have more help and Matthew is more stable (for the most part), or at least more predictable. It is reasonable for me to begin considering leaving the home again. The theology degree I have been working on was, in part, a chance to explore that. I want to return to something but I am not sure what. As mentioned, I have puttered around for the last few years doing a theology degree for fun, and that will be finished this spring. My goal for the next few months has been to sort of what my next step(s) might be. A few people suggested I consider ordination. I vetoed it for several reasons. I have flirted with returning to OT but that doesn't excite me. The two things I keep coming back to are either returning to doctoral work or perhaps explore teacher's college with the hopes of working in the area of special education. I believe I would find the latter quite meaningful and I like the idea of forming longer term relationships and community with the kids, something that didn't really happen in the highly consultative model of OT I was working within clinically.
I envy those of you who feel your calling and love your jobs passionately. I wish I had that. However, on the other hand, I am aware that I am very priveleged to be allowed this prolonged period of exploration.
trishcuit
Elanorgold, What i want to
Posted on: 09/03/2010 15:20
Elanorgold,
What i want to know is: How did GALADRIEL and CELEBORN choose THEIR careers?
carolla
@ Beshpin - not to derail the
Posted on: 09/03/2010 18:25
@ Beshpin - not to derail the thread - yes, I recall that you did post that you wanted to get into med school & didn't know what might happen if you did not - I recall because I replied to you ... your post & my reply are not showing as I scroll back.
carolla
Daisy Jane - any thoughts
Posted on: 09/03/2010 18:29
Daisy Jane - any thoughts about Occupational Science? That looks pretty interesting from the bits I've read. And re OT - maybe you just didn't find your niche - there really are diverse opportunities - I've filled in a few other clinical areas & really did not enjoy them (ortho for example) but I also did a bit of paeds (cursive writing group - that was fun!) Several of my paeds OT friends have some private businesses - find that really rewarding - have you considered that? Bath seats & bars ... not my thing either ... but fortunately there are others who love that aspect. Diversity ... gotta love it.
Tiger Lily
Carolla - just curious about
Posted on: 09/09/2010 15:14
Carolla - just curious about what occupational science is.
As for me it took me a while to figure out what I wanted to do. Took part of a degree and then stopped school and worked for a while.
When I went back to school I had some career counselling and one suggestion was being a speech-language pathologist. Really had never heard of that kind of work before but learned more about it. Seemed like a good fit because of my love of language and communication. Did an undergrad degree as a pre-requisite and then a graduate degree in speech-language pathology. Always knew that I wanted to work with children so that's the group that I chose to work with.
My first job involved more traditional speech-language therapy (what people think SLPs do) but then I was ready for something different. So I worked with preschoolers who had disabilities and fell in love with that work. And loved working with OTs and PTs in a collaborative way. Always a very interesting field to work in. Could kind of evolve into new areas and learn new things.
But I sure didn't predict the volume of paperwork when I was in school lol
I think that the work that I chose was a perfect fit for me. I'm not doing it now bc I'm unable to work due to health issues. But it was the right job for me.
carolla
Ah, Callisto - didn't know
Posted on: 09/03/2010 20:56
Ah, Callisto - didn't know you're an SLP! I work with lots who are terrific and we really value them on our treatment teams. Good question - what is Occupational Science - brief answer so as not to derail - it's an evolving multi-disciplinary behavioural science field, now associated with most OT schools, which strives to develop a scientific understanding for the practice of OT. I guess in some respects we've gone about it 'backwards' - intuitively knowing the value of daily occupation & how it brings meaning to people's lives, developing our practices & philosophies - and now we're looking for the science that underpins that knowledge. Make sense? If you google, you'll find lots more info - or wondermail me & we can chat - but I'm no expert, just a curious practitioner.
DaisyJane
My master's thesis explored
Posted on: 09/05/2010 18:20
My master's thesis explored occ. science quite extensively.. I'm just not sure I love it enough to consider doing a Ph.D.
Elanorgold
Trishcuit: LOL!! I guess they
Posted on: 09/07/2010 17:14
Trishcuit: LOL!! I guess they were just born into it. ; ) How nice eh!
DaisyJane: Wow, you're lucky to have so much education, and to continue to have that opportunity. I had a friend who started her psychology degree at about 42. I bet she's practicing by now. SHe loved her schooling and was top of the class.
Elanorgold
Recently I went to the job
Posted on: 09/07/2010 17:35
Recently I went to the job center and took the "Strong" Interests and "Myers-Briggs" Personality tests. The results were very interesting. I got a list of suitable careers based on my interests, and found out my personality type, one of 16 types, in Junian psychology, I am an INFP. And the description for my personality type is bang on. Really fun and useful to learn more about myself, and see what others with my personality type enjoy and succeed at doing. Turns out many are writters and musicians. The top proffession listed for me in the Interests test was musician, followed by translator. It confirmed for me a strong interest in science and art, and to my surprise: math! I am "Investigative: Artistic". It also confirmed for me what I am suited to about my present work, and what my trouble areas are.
I recommend these tests to anyone who is considdering further training in something, or who just wants to know more about themselves. The personality test is usefull to employers also, to see if a candidate is suitable for the job, for couples experiencing relationship difficulties, and those interested in psychology.
My lady did say the tests don't work so well on teenagers though, as they don't yet have enough knowledge about the world to answer the questions in a way that will give accurate results. Many of us are too young to choose our career for the rest of our lives, at 18.
carolla
Elanorgold wrote: Many of
Posted on: 09/08/2010 09:46
Many of us are too young to choose our career for the rest of our lives, at 18.
I agree Elanorgold - and there's a lot of pressure starting way earlier than that - in choosing high schools & courses - and I think perhaps an overemphasis on the absolute neccessity of university - i.e. skilled trades are unfortunately still seen as a default position by many people.
We see more kids around here taking a "victory lap" at high school - an additional year after graduation - take a few more courses, grow up a little more, work a bit & start figuring out life.
Serena
Some prophets came from the
Posted on: 09/09/2010 00:48
Some prophets came from the united states and put their hands on my head and told me that I was called by God to be a pastor. I was in grade 11 at the time. The Bible verse that I was given was "and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever". And look at where I am now. I am an atheist and far from the house of the Lord. So in grade 12 I started taking Saturday Bible College. Bible College was Tuesday to Saturday. I was also told to teach Sunday School and volunteer in Nursery. According to my spiritual gifts inventory teaching was one of my gifts. I had no experience with anything other than teaching and music when I left the church so I did not really know my career options. Other than being a pastor or a teacher. I am no longer teaching and plan never to go back
Elanorgold
Darn those prophets eh! My
Posted on: 09/09/2010 11:10
Darn those prophets eh! My mom went to bible college too and she's a non believer. She was voted the most likely to steer off the path, yup, they were right.
I remember environmentalists coming to ur school in grade 9, and we watched Bruce Coburn's If a Tree Falls video, and a documentary about deforestation and she gave a talk. That had an effect on my life.
It's scarey how influenceable we are as young people though. The people who come into our lives, a book we happen upon, something said that leads to a mode of thinking, fashions and music of the time... holy crumoly.
Serena
Elanorgold wrote:Darn those
Posted on: 09/09/2010 15:05
Darn those prophets eh! My mom went to bible college too and she's a non believer. She was voted the most likely to steer off the path, yup, they were right
Another prophecy over my church was that God would raise up two great youth leaders.( I was identified as one of the two. My whole gr 12 class was gifted bbut a grade 11 student and myself were identified as great leaders) One would waste all their God given gifts and talents and stop serving God. and the other would go on to serve God although that leader was less gifted. So the upside is that I am. The more gifted great youth leader.
So now I am just waiting for Obi One Konobi to come help me fulfill that prophecy. Because even darth vadar returned to the light so eventually I will fulfill my destiny as well
Elanorgold
Good thinking Serena.
Posted on: 09/10/2010 21:49
Good thinking Serena.