Hey all!

My friend just found out that her ex has been withholding information about his annual income, despite a court order requiring his full disclosure. Based on the difference between what he was telling her his income was and what it actually is since she forced disclosure through the court, she figures he owes her (their child, really) approximately $15,000 from the past 3 years.

I find myself being torn in a bunch of different directions. I am looking to get divorced, but coming from a Mennonite background, I have heard all my life that it is wrong, God does not condone it. I have been told that even though I get a divorce, I will still be married to my husband in the eyes of God, and that remarriage is strictly prohibited and would be seen as adultery. Before people start posting responses to this, allow me to explain why I am getting divorced.

Long story short, here is a timeline of what has happened: