Approx 18 years ago, I discovered we were expecting twins -- I still vividly remember the excitement and anxiety, and breaking news to my husband, and our family.   During that time, no one shared with us that there was a higher risk of loss with twins.  Our first one was so easy, why wouldn't this work out?

The shock of the loss at 26 weeks was profound.  I learned to live with a lot of "what-if's" that weren't.